Girlfriend (23) using drugs

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So now you're trying to shame men who do not use drugs?
So what, now the new terminology is :
Drug user= Cool
Non-drug user= Losers?
you're right, he is the looser, he need drugs to be happy and to give a purpose in life destroying is body and brain, turning up with a limp d!ck.
 

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You've never tried any drugs? No wonder I don't like you.

You seem like a very unoriginal guy. Drugs might help you lol

I don't promote drug use, but I can tell from this thread a bunch about y'all
I'm not here for you.

And since I'm not a follower type, it is I who sets standards for others to follow me.
 

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So now you're trying to shame men who do not use drugs?
So what, now the new terminology is :
Drug user= Cool
Non-drug user= Losers?
I already mentioned how I'm not a fan of drug use, but if you're going to flip your sh1t about it, then I can tell I wouldn't like you in person.

I'm not a fan of marijuana, but I have multiple successful friends that are. One is a civil engineer that smokes every night before bed; another burns all the time and works for a DC think tank making bookoo bucks.

So, if you want to tell me that drugs will ruin your life, I'm going to give you a hard pass. Probably won't respect anything you say from here on out, as you obviously haven't lived the life that I have.
 

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I'm not here for you.

And since I'm not a follower type, it is I who sets standards for others to follow me.
I know, buddy. I'm here to give an alternative view to all your bullsh1t.
 

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OP I recently dumped a chick who was using cocaine..

Let me tell you man, any chick using Class A drugs, is a disaster waiting to happen.

Girls who take drugs, end up associationing with other drug users.

The one I was seeing, said she was an occasional user of cocaine, and she would quit.

However its about the circle of friends they hang around with. If the freinds or family take drugs, then she will always have that influence around her.

Imagine how you will feel anytime your girl is out drinking with her friends? You will always have the drugs in the back of your mind.

Girls who use cocaine, tend to sleep around op.. Any drug use with a girl you are dating is a BIG ass red flag.
I agree that a chick that's doing drugs shouldn't be trusted, but this guy is talking about what boils down to inhaling a whip cream can, which I figure made them a lot of money in my teenage years, as parents kept trying to use whipped cream cans that wouldn't put out.

Maybe I'm an outlier because I've used a bunch of drugs in the past, but at least I'm adding a little pepper to y'all's salt.

Edit - and cocaine is a hell of a drug. I wouldn't trust a b1tch on it
 

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So now you're trying to shame men who do not use drugs?
So what, now the new terminology is :
Drug user= Cool
Non-drug user= Losers?
Less ""loser"", more very surprisingly clueless. Then effecting some of the advice (venting?) after, most of which seems basically unrelated to anything he's saying.

This drug which you take in through a balloon is seen as a silly social thing to do. It's not bloody crack cocaine. It's very one off and circumstantial, done in this instance on a family holiday in the company of family. Raise some disapproval which she'll likely just plainly agree with and move on.

I do assume that the OP has vetted the girl having known her a year of course - knows her well enough. He mentions great qualities, which I don't agree that this situation outweighs (that's an understatement lol).

I know, buddy. I'm here to give an alternative view to all your bullsh1t.
Well he only has 16 followers. That's what? One for every 500 posts he has made. Not very efficient, is it?

Let's get back on topic rather than talk about his lack of followers despite his best efforts.
 

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@rando5495 I've never looked at how many followers he has. I just take a hard swipe at him any time I'm in the mood. I think he gives some good advice, but he bites a lot of it, and pretends it's his own. Also, he just posts so much that I can't avoid him.
 

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But I truthfully don’t like this at all.
^This is all that really matters - if it bothers you, that's what's important.

I've tried plenty of drugs, but they're not all equal. For instance I'd never do anything involving a needle. Everyone has their own personal level of comfort - some don't do any, not even a glass of wine. To each his own.

But what this is REALLY about is the girl doing it outside the OP's sphere. She's out partying halfway across the world. So she's enjoying this moment without him. At least she told him and was with family.

If a girlfriend said to me "what if we smoked a joint/sniffed a line and fukked all night?" I'd consider it. Well, I've done it.

If she said "I'm thinking of trying heroin," that'd be a hard next.

If she texted from Vietnam "I'm chilling in a lounge and might try the local stuff out," yeah that would have a different psychological impact on me. Same as if she'd texted from there that she was out clubbing til 9 a.m., or went skinny dipping, or whatever.

That's me though.
 

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I agree that a chick that's doing drugs shouldn't be trusted, but this guy is talking about what boils down to inhaling a whip cream can, which I figure made them a lot of money in my teenage years, as parents kept trying to use whipped cream cans that wouldn't put out.

Maybe I'm an outlier because I've used a bunch of drugs in the past, but at least I'm adding a little pepper to y'all's salt.

Edit - and cocaine is a hell of a drug. I wouldn't trust a b1tch on it
I think this is a somewhat different matter... Sounds like she tried something that she can easily go without touching again.

I thought she was trying some harder shyte..

If it was cocaine, then I would tell op to drop her Azz immediately.

Girls who use cocaine are very unpredictable.. They will tell you it's for occasional use, but could be a potential full blown habit waiting to happen.

Plus girls drinking and taking cocaine at the same time have a tendency to get horny and svck multiple strange DIKS..

I would run from any woman who uses class A drugs.
 

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^This is all that really matters - if it bothers you, that's what's important.

I've tried plenty of drugs, but they're not all equal. For instance I'd never do anything involving a needle. Everyone has their own personal level of comfort - some don't do any, not even a glass of wine. To each his own.

But what this is REALLY about is the girl doing it outside the OP's sphere. She's out partying halfway across the world. So she's enjoying this moment without him. At least she told him and was with family.

If a girlfriend said to me "what if we smoked a joint/sniffed a line and fukked all night?" I'd consider it. Well, I've done it.

If she said "I'm thinking of trying heroin," that'd be a hard next.

If she texted from Vietnam "I'm chilling in a lounge and might try the local stuff out," yeah that would have a different psychological impact on me. Same as if she'd texted from there that she was out clubbing til 9 a.m., or went skinny dipping, or whatever.

That's me though.
Top notch.

As long as there weren't any parameters set beforehand, I wouldn't be upset over something like that.

We all have our lines, however. Like Samspade said, if it bothers you enough, pull the trigger and don't hesitate.

Though I would think it through before I took a bunch of fvcks advice off sosuave.
 

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enough said, case closed
+1

I am not even trying to be a ****.

Much of the process of going through the fire, its in the details. There is subtlety and nuances.

Guys sell themselves short with cratered SMV, single mom and old ladies. You have even men, so called DJ or red pill aware men who pander and simp all the while attacking you. White Knight and male feminists.

The reality is, the process of going through the fire takes time. You got time as a man the way women do not. This is biology. Its fertility (or lack thereof).

Unfortunately, most men won't do it nor put the time in.
 

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it's like shoot yourself in the feet
Guys full on shoot themselves in the cawk.

I know of millennials who are ok with their wife or gf going to vegas. Full blown cucks. I blame low testosterone. That and bbc cuck porn lulz.

Its cool. More women for me.

Some phaggot texted my mate, 'thanks for taking care of my gf last night. "

He went balls deep with balls hanging out, nutted, then, sent her back to him. Millennials are a joke.
 
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Any women or men that dabbles in either soft or hard drugs, drop them from ur circle.

And if any Sosuave members are doing it, I strongly suggest you drop it too.

Life is hard, that's true, but using drugs as means of escape or for entertainment is not the way of masculinity.
This is an absolute... Seriously guys you do not want to be with a woman taking class A drugs or sniffing cocaine.

Your life will be consumed with uncertainty and worry.

When she is out with her friends drinking, all you will be thinking about is her taking big black DIKS from dealers.
 

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The knee-jerk reactions to this post are hilarious, "Dump her! Dump her!" If only all the SS members were such "saints" lol

First, OP said the girl is 23. 2-3. Hardly a mature women. Yeah, she wants to have some fun...what a f*ucking crime!! lol

Look, a whippet is a small hit of nitrous oxide or laughing gas as we know it in the US. Many dental offices use it here in the US. She's NOT a drug addict for having a little fun with it anymore than you're an alcoholic for having a couple beers or drinks. So yes, lighten the f*uck up people.

JFC, it's like she's shooting up heroin or smoking crack based on some of the "advice" here, LOL. No wonder so many SS dudes are perpetually single.

If you dump this girl for taking hits of N2O, after all the compliments you paid her in your OP about being a great girlfriend, you mind as well look for your next girlfriend in a convent.
 
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The knee-jerk reactions to this post are hilarious, "Dump her! Dump her!" If only all the SS members were such "saints" lol

First, OP said the girl is 23. 2-3. Hardly a mature women. Yeah, she wants to have some fun...what a f*ucking crime!! lol

Look, a whippet is a small hit of nitrous oxide or laughing gas as we know it in the US. Many dental offices use it here in the US. She's NOT a drug addict for having a little fun with it anymore than you're an alcoholic for having a couple beers or drinks. So yes, lighten the f*uck up people.

JFC, it's like she's shooting up heroin or smoking crack based on some of the "advice" here, LOL. No wonder so many SS dudes are perpetually single.

If you dump this girl for taking hits of N2O, after all the compliments you paid her in your OP about being a great girlfriend, you mind as well look for your next girlfriend in a convent.
I think in this case, op is over reacting.. Its not like a Class A d she is messing with.
 

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I already mentioned how I'm not a fan of drug use, but if you're going to flip your sh1t about it, then I can tell I wouldn't like you in person.

I'm not a fan of marijuana, but I have multiple successful friends that are. One is a civil engineer that smokes every night before bed; another burns all the time and works for a DC think tank making bookoo bucks.

So, if you want to tell me that drugs will ruin your life, I'm going to give you a hard pass. Probably won't respect anything you say from here on out, as you obviously haven't lived the life that I have.
So you're saying your friends needs drugs to be an successful engineer.. Well i already see where you came from.

BTW I don't think people using drugs are stupid, they are bright and manipulative i fact can be very successful person, but heavily damaged good beyond repair.. Never a whole person.
 

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using drugs as means of escape or for entertainment is not the way of masculinity.
It absolutely is one way of masculinity.
 
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