"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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R1ch4rd

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Last week my lifes been quite eventful. I've uped my game, Got 3 girls after me. It's all going good with friends, family and girls. But There's this one girl what I'm pretty sure she likes me. Thing is I'm really not attracted to her, body or face or even personality really. Now she gave me her number, I didn't treally have to talk to her. I been looking at the angle that I could meet her friends, a couple are cute, but if she likes me not sure she's going to let me to her mates.

On some pictures shes got some cute girl-friends saying pretty(don't know if they are making her feel good) I wouldn't say ugly really, just avergae. I would post a pic, but dpeneds if it's need lol

What do you think I should do guys?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I sorta believe in karma...And when you think about it, using her to get to her friends is kinda a **** move...and you must remember, she has great influence on your future interactions with her friends...

perhaps you should hang out as a group with her, her friends, and a wingman of yours or two....this way you can get their numbers and not really be using her...as long as you treat all the ladies well...no one can say anything bad

but either way, this is a nasty situation...just dont use people as stepping stones and you should be fine
 

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Yeah I didn't want to use her. I odn't have any wingman, just my mates, I'm happy to hang out, maybe invite my mates(if they would come lol) and get her to bring hers, but i feel there's also going to be her getting in a way infront of any other possible girls.
 

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Tell that bïtch to get some slimfast yo and when Shamu looses a couple pounds. Raw dawg that shït brother and nut in her eyes. GL!

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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holy shiiit shiiiit shiiiiiit fuuckk her in her motha ****kkkin asss!!
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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R1ch4rd said:
Last week my lifes been quite eventful. I've uped my game, Got 3 girls after me. It's all going good with friends, family and girls. But There's this one girl what I'm pretty sure she likes me. Thing is I'm really not attracted to her, body or face or even personality really. Now she gave me her number, I didn't treally have to talk to her. I been looking at the angle that I could meet her friends, a couple are cute, but if she likes me not sure she's going to let me to her mates.

On some pictures shes got some cute girl-friends saying pretty(don't know if they are making her feel good) I wouldn't say ugly really, just avergae. I would post a pic, but dpeneds if it's need lol

What do you think I should do guys?
Pics are always needed, faggot.

And just **** her already, ugly *****es will do more freaky **** with you because they're desperate
 

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Seriously bro, the uglier they get the freakier they are. Obviously there's a limit dip **** but at around 6 it's some kinky ****, ya dig.
 

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haha yeah shes not fat type. No but shes not very sexual like that, and she hate being asked for sex, even from me and she likes me!! I don't think she be worth it, and no shes about a 5 lol
 

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haha yeah shes not fat type. No but shes not very sexual like that, and she hate being asked for sex, even from me and she likes me!! I don't think she be worth it, and no shes about a 5 lol
just don't make any advances then, or show any romantic interest and she should get the hint. if she asks you just tell her you just wanna be friends
 

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Dude, do it up like a chick. Chill with her, invite her and her friends to do **** with you and your friends, etc. If she pushes anything, LJBF her.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I was in this situation before, I just nexted them.

There's millions of girls out there, you'll eventually attract one that you're attracted to.

You're not desperate enough to screw a chick you really don't want, are you?

This is the pain of game. Sometimes you get gold nuggets or diamonds. Most of the time you get sh!t rocks.
 

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yeah man carma is there it will eventually kick u hard if u do bad stuff
 
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