"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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heater528

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Just got a quick question. With the one girl i have been seeing things have been going great. Last night she called while i was out with my friends. I didnt answer and called her back this morning. Left a voice mail message saying pretty much for her to gime a call because we are hanging out tonight... I ended the freakin convo with Look forward to chilling with u this weekend I feel this on my part was AFC ish however we have been hanging out together for the past month. What do you guys think ?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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hey dude yeah it is AFCish but its redeemable, next time just be like "cool so anyway i'll catch you later" and end it or "see ya" or whateva,

you dont need to be like "im really really looking forward to seeing you, please take extra special care" or your start to sound like my creepy brother, lol i know you wernt quite like that but still, it comes across as creepy.

just be smooth.

good luck
 

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I think that you need to continue this cat and mouse game before she tries to turn it around and have you chase her. Homie dont play that ya hear. keep them wanting and waiting. keep throwing that bait to them. but dont play too hard to get then she will stop trying. let her eventually get you.
 

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I agree after i said it on the phone i was thinking wtf was that.... Why did that **** come out.
 

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It's OK to make mistakes and learn from it, don't worry if you blew this one.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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