"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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mojo16

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last year i got really close with this girl. we've kissed a few times, talked heaps but nothing really ended up happening since we are both so busy i guess.

anyways we still talk once or twice a week, and lately shes been telling me she misses me, asking me to catch up etc...

then, last night, i was doing a bit of cyberstalking.... and i went on her blog, where she had actually written about me... more so about a song which we both used to love. she wrote:

Not only does it (the song) remind me of my childhood but a really good friend of mine, when we used to talk heaps and heaps, once told me that this song reminded them of me. Not sure whether that comment implied that they thought I was a happy person or that I had the effect of making them happy, like the song does. But whatever it meant, I can only smile and feel flattered :)


what do you all make of this paragraph? IOIs?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sounds kinda like she's telling the world she has some guy complimenting her.

I would argue that she's tryna get the attention of another guy, and you're the bait.
 
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She's talking about her BFF. The person she talks with for hours on end and shares feelings with. IOW, her girlfriend.

That girlfriend is you.
 
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vatoloco said:
She's talking about her BFF. The person she talks with for hours on end and shares feelings with. IOW, her girlfriend.

That girlfriend is you.
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Indeed.
That was not an IOI but actually an IOD, indicator of disinterest, because it shows shes not interested in you in a romantic way.
 
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