"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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girl writes about me in her blog

mojo16

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last year i got really close with this girl. we've kissed a few times, talked heaps but nothing really ended up happening since we are both so busy i guess.

anyways we still talk once or twice a week, and lately shes been telling me she misses me, asking me to catch up etc...

then, last night, i was doing a bit of cyberstalking.... and i went on her blog, where she had actually written about me... more so about a song which we both used to love. she wrote:

Not only does it (the song) remind me of my childhood but a really good friend of mine, when we used to talk heaps and heaps, once told me that this song reminded them of me. Not sure whether that comment implied that they thought I was a happy person or that I had the effect of making them happy, like the song does. But whatever it meant, I can only smile and feel flattered :)


what do you all make of this paragraph? IOIs?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Sounds kinda like she's telling the world she has some guy complimenting her.

I would argue that she's tryna get the attention of another guy, and you're the bait.
 

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She's talking about her BFF. The person she talks with for hours on end and shares feelings with. IOW, her girlfriend.

That girlfriend is you.
 

n00bPimp

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vatoloco said:
She's talking about her BFF. The person she talks with for hours on end and shares feelings with. IOW, her girlfriend.

That girlfriend is you.
Indeed.
That was not an IOI but actually an IOD, indicator of disinterest, because it shows shes not interested in you in a romantic way.
 
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