Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
This is a really good topic that is rarely discussed on this forum.
Allan Roger Currie, the king of the short term hookup, wrote the manga carta on this called Mode One. It’s a goldmine.
I haven't read Mode One. I have read a lot of seduction material over time, but never Mode One.
Its a good read, the logic in it is difficult to disagree with.
I would read Mode One. I only read it a couple years ago, I really enjoyed it because I have always enjoyed the dynamics involved in sexual chemistry. From my earliest memories of taking on the phone in grammar school with all the girls in class who wanted to visualize sex, fingering my mothers friends daughter in the park in high school and on, there’s always been the consistency that the allusion of sexual activity with innuendo, the physical touch, the right posture and demeanor that exudes it without saying it, it all plays a part. If she tries to open up that line of dialogue up, for instance on a phone call you flip it into phone sex. In person you should always be escalating. It’s push pull, nothing more or less. It works every single time. If she doesn’t put out then move on. Banging her right will push a hookup much further than it’s normal timeline, for better or worse
This might be a good time to take your own advice. State what you mean, if they don't like it move on.....Right?
