ohiobohio518
Don Juan
OK. I didn't get any replies with my original thread so I'm going to rephrase and repost. I figure I wasn't specific enough.
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Intro:
I'm 19, and I've known this 18 y/o chick for about 2 months now. A female friend introduced me to her and we've been becoming increasingly better friends.
Signs of attrac.:
I'm never quick to assume that a girl likes me. Never. I would doubt and doubt and doubt over and over again. But after weeding out the subtle signs, etc, I've come to the conclusion that she MIGHT like me. She attempts to see me 1 on 1 (granted only once - but that's since we've become closer), and when we do, she leans into me and holds eye contact, etc to a point where I detect her open-body-language and start interpreting it as a sign of attraction. She also displays closed-body-language to those who happen to be around her, further solidifying my belief that she might like me.
I can go more in depth if necessary. But this is beside the point so I'll leave it at that.
MY ACTUAL SITUATION:
The past few days, she's been asking me who I like. This is obviously not something new to me, or to anyone for that matter. But what makes her unique is that she just won't freakin' give up. You would expect someone to either forget or give up over the course of a few days, but she just won't!.. to a point where she's refusing to talk to me until I tell her. (Obviously she isn't exactly holding up to her word, as she IS talking to me.. telling me that she won't talk to me.......)
Now you're thinking.. OK.. so she's just really stubborn or really nosey.. That's exactly what I would think too, but consider this:
The same female friend who introduced me to her came up to me and was like, "You like her. I know you do. It's pretty damn obvious. Don't you?"
I gave some ambiguous response that could be open to many interpretations. This friend has left me alone about who I like, much to my relief.
If it's so obvoius that my friend thinks I liek her, wouldn't it be obvious to the girl who is incessantly asking me who I like, as well?
My friends think that this is just her way of saying "hurry up and ask me out already." Should I believe them? And even if it does mean that, how the hell would I ask her out if she refuses to talk to me until I tell her who I like?
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Intro:
I'm 19, and I've known this 18 y/o chick for about 2 months now. A female friend introduced me to her and we've been becoming increasingly better friends.
Signs of attrac.:
I'm never quick to assume that a girl likes me. Never. I would doubt and doubt and doubt over and over again. But after weeding out the subtle signs, etc, I've come to the conclusion that she MIGHT like me. She attempts to see me 1 on 1 (granted only once - but that's since we've become closer), and when we do, she leans into me and holds eye contact, etc to a point where I detect her open-body-language and start interpreting it as a sign of attraction. She also displays closed-body-language to those who happen to be around her, further solidifying my belief that she might like me.
I can go more in depth if necessary. But this is beside the point so I'll leave it at that.
MY ACTUAL SITUATION:
The past few days, she's been asking me who I like. This is obviously not something new to me, or to anyone for that matter. But what makes her unique is that she just won't freakin' give up. You would expect someone to either forget or give up over the course of a few days, but she just won't!.. to a point where she's refusing to talk to me until I tell her. (Obviously she isn't exactly holding up to her word, as she IS talking to me.. telling me that she won't talk to me.......)
Now you're thinking.. OK.. so she's just really stubborn or really nosey.. That's exactly what I would think too, but consider this:
The same female friend who introduced me to her came up to me and was like, "You like her. I know you do. It's pretty damn obvious. Don't you?"
I gave some ambiguous response that could be open to many interpretations. This friend has left me alone about who I like, much to my relief.
If it's so obvoius that my friend thinks I liek her, wouldn't it be obvious to the girl who is incessantly asking me who I like, as well?
My friends think that this is just her way of saying "hurry up and ask me out already." Should I believe them? And even if it does mean that, how the hell would I ask her out if she refuses to talk to me until I tell her who I like?
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