Girl wont have sex

[falconslax89]

so theres this girl ive been talking to recently. shes theres nothing wrong with her, im just not that interested in her. shes probably an HB7. shes very smart and works hard and is somewhat religious.
i figure the reason im not that into her is because she was so easy for me to obtain...it was no chase at all really. shes super into me. but heres the thing...she wont have sex with me! she says she wants to do it "differently" then before and has made it obvious that she wants me as her boyfriend before we take it to the next level.
i, however, just want to bang her. i dont want to take it to the next level. ive been trying to make her feel comfortable enough around me to just cut the crap and **** but it hasnt been working. im sure she has the idea we are somewhat exclusive, but im working on others girls as well. definitely no oneitis here!
so how can i get this girl to give it up?? we have gotten very close and shes all into dry humping, which i hate. shes always talking about how hard it is for her and bla bla bla. any advice?

 

[Lexington]

If she doesn't want to fvck you, there's nothing you can do short of raping her (and I'm sure you don't want to try that). Have you at least made out with her? If you make out with her intensely, there's a chance you can stoke her sex drive enough to give it up.

I was messing around with a Christian chick a few months ago. She said she wouldn't give it up, but she was okay with making out. Basically, I just gradually escalated my way to the lay. You have to be patient and keep ramping up the intensity of your makeout sessions. You have to make her horny as fvck.

Make sure you use your hands in a very sensual way. Touch her in those erogenous zones as you make out with her. Eventually, she might cave. That's what happened with this Christian chick. I made out with her for a good 45 minutes before I finally got her to take off her shirt. Next I worked my way up to her bra. Once the bra came off, it was easy to make her lose the pants and it was smooth sailing from there.

Try that, and if it doesn't work, next her.

 

[eaglez1177]

so theres this girl ive been talking to recently. shes theres nothing wrong with her, im just not that interested in her. shes probably an HB7. shes very smart and works hard and is somewhat religious.
i figure the reason im not that into her is because she was so easy for me to obtain...it was no chase at all really. shes super into me. but heres the thing...she wont have sex with me! she says she wants to do it "differently" then before and has made it obvious that she wants me as her boyfriend before we take it to the next level.
i, however, just want to bang her. i dont want to take it to the next level. ive been trying to make her feel comfortable enough around me to just cut the crap and **** but it hasnt been working. im sure she has the idea we are somewhat exclusive, but im working on others girls as well. definitely no oneitis here!
so how can i get this girl to give it up?? we have gotten very close and shes all into dry humping, which i hate. shes always talking about how hard it is for her and bla bla bla. any advice?

Well it's good to see that you havent fallen into her "drag-you-into-a-relationship-by-using-sex" trap.

As for the "doing it differnetly" part, my guess is that she either had a bad experience in the past, or she feels that she was slvtty because she would have sex with guys that she wasnt going out with. Regardless though, that's totally irrelevant.

The most important part of this whole thing is YOU. You are the man, and you are going to do what you want. If a girl isn't doing what YOU want, then you have to move onto the next one. By that I mean its in your best interest to next this chick, and not waste any more time trying to get in her pants. It seems to me that you've tried hard, and she's given a lot of resistance, and if shes already been this stubborn about it for so long, theres no point in trying to "fix" her. It'll just be a waste of time, and will drive you crazy.

And just for the record, don't buy into ANY of that crap about "how hard it is for her". Lmaoo. I actually chuckled when I read that. I find it so funny how girls will say anything and go to any length just to not make them seem like the "bad guys." When she says something like, "Ohh its really hard for me to hold back you don't understand" blah blah or somethin like that, she is talking COMPLETE bullsh*t. If it was truly hard for her to hold herself back, she would grow a fvckin brain, listen to her sexual needs, and stop holding herself back. And, if she truly really wanted to have sex with you, she would've by now. Trust me man, this girl will be willing to hold out for as long as it takes to pull you into a relationship, because it is NOT in fact "hard" for her to hold herself back.

 

[falconslax89]

thanks guys...

lexington-making out is no problem, shes all for that all the time. getting her shirt and bra off is no problem. fingering her isnt one either but thats as far as it goes...

eagle-oh, i know she is full of ****. i even called her out on it. when she said it was sooo hard for her i said "obviously it isnt..."

should i get in a "relationship" with her just so i can **** her? i know its dumb but ive already wasted this much time on her i might as well give a little more so i can nail her a few dozen times...then next her lol.

 

[Ease]

Obviously dont rape her, but do force yourself in a rape-like fashion.

Strong enough to give her no chance of escape from under you, yet light enough so that you can claim it was just rough sex if police get involved.

Havent field tested this- try it and post results.

 

[falconslax89]

Obviously dont rape her, but do force yourself in a rape-like fashion.

Strong enough to give her no chance of escape from under you, yet light enough so that you can claim it was just rough sex if police get involved.

Havent field tested this- try it and post results.

haha are you serious...

i dont know if im down for the idea that a girl would even consider i was trying to rape her lol

 

[sodbuster]

Bad idea, she can claim rape for way less than that. I had a girl claim sex with her was almost rape. I called her on her BS saying" you woke me up by playing with my d!ck". THEN she had to back down,before that, she was serious. DON"T give a woman the slightest reason to THINK it MIGHT be rape-she'll talk to another woman-the other woman will claim it's rape,then in order not to look like a slut-your GF agrees. After a few days of thinking about it,she'll believe it and possibly call the cops.

 

[falconslax89]

yea lol...thanks for the suggestion but ill probably have to pass on that one

 

[eaglez1177]

Obviously dont rape her, but do force yourself in a rape-like fashion.

Strong enough to give her no chance of escape from under you, yet light enough so that you can claim it was just rough sex if police get involved.

Havent field tested this- try it and post results.

Lmaooo I think hes just messin around :crackup:

And as for the relationship thing: Idk man its your call. I personally wouldnt wanna deal with all that dumb crap, but thats just me. One thing I can say though is that you cant make it obvious to her that you're only in the relationship for sex. If your gonna get in a relationship, you gotta actually trick her into thinking that you genuinely want a relationship (which in reality you just wanna bang her).

Then again, I know a few people that have been in the exact situation you're in, and they've each gone two different routes:

One of em got in the relationship with all the intentions like you have, but wound up getting emotionally attached, and the relationship eventually broke down, leaving him pretty hurt

Another one also went into the relationship with all the intentions you have, and DIDNT get emotionally attached. He instead got laid from his "gf" whenever he wanted, while cheating on her alot and getting with other girls.

What im saying is, if you're gonna get in a relationship just for sex, make sure its JUST for sex, and that you dont get too attached.

 

[falconslax89]

Lmaooo I think hes just messin around :crackup:

And as for the relationship thing: Idk man its your call. I personally wouldnt wanna deal with all that dumb crap, but thats just me. One thing I can say though is that you cant make it obvious to her that you're only in the relationship for sex. If your gonna get in a relationship, you gotta actually trick her into thinking that you genuinely want a relationship (which in reality you just wanna bang her).

Then again, I know a few people that have been in the exact situation you're in, and they've each gone two different routes:

One of em got in the relationship with all the intentions like you have, but wound up getting emotionally attached, and the relationship eventually broke down, leaving him pretty hurt

Another one also went into the relationship with all the intentions you have, and DIDNT get emotionally attached. He instead got laid from his "gf" whenever he wanted, while cheating on her alot and getting with other girls.

What im saying is, if you're gonna get in a relationship just for sex, make sure its JUST for sex, and that you dont get too attached.

dont think ill get attached. i typically wont do that with girls that really want me..only the ones i cant have go figure..

shes nothing that special in my book, i think i can pull it off with my baller acting skillz. im just gonna feel like a huge **** ya know

 

[eaglez1177]

dont think ill get attached. i typically wont do that with girls that really want me..only the ones i cant have go figure..

shes nothing that special in my book, i think i can pull it off with my baller acting skillz. im just gonna feel like a huge **** ya know

Lol nah man don't feel like a douche. Your doin what you want and you're following your d*ck. I pretty much "faked" a relationship to get laid for about 3 months, and when I got bored and ended it, didn't feel like a douche one bit