"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Girl with very big boobs

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I recently met this girl and already had a date with her, I kinda like her she is approximately a 7 but she gets lot of point cause she is pleasable to have around, clever not obnoxious at all and very feminine...she is actually a animal doctor at 24 and speaks two languages quite a catch for what I saw till now.

The problem is that she has REALLY big boobs, which is great for me since I like big boobs but is somehow hard for me to deal with that.

Many girls with such gift usually have a complex about it, they perceive it either as too big or they are afraid guys are only after that.

Im much more into the a$$hole side of the spectrum, in few time I meet a girl I start getting physical and talking dirty which works but Im not sure in this case, both for the boobs both because she doesnt look like the b1tches I often deal with.

I checked her facebook very carefully and didnt see a single picture where she looked slvtty, most were of her with other girls doing day activities.

What do you think about it?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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you are probably reading to much into it. in the bed women will vary tremendously. You have to figure it out like any other girl. Do what you like and see what she responds to.
 

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As long as you don't stare and don't use the phrase "honk honk" while you squeeze them, you'll be fine.

Anytime you're sitting next to her, you can put your hand up the back of her shirt and rub her back. You know it hurts from dragging those things around.
 

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Thats true Bible, I considered that such weights could really make their back work hard, now that I recall she doesnt wear a bra but some kind of tight for the upper body.

The problem is that is very hard for me to not look at them,even under a sweater they were evident, as I said I like this girl and I just dont want to make her uncomfortable or pissed off.

I mean if she was a girl from the club I would have done my worst as usual but I would mind to haver her around so I have to try to be a little less of a a$$hole, also cause she didnt play any trick or pissed me off yet.

Reply to texts arrive in 1 min so they speed in setting the meeting.
 

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I have a female friend with huge boobs. I just bring it up in a sort of straightforward manner. I would be talking to her about relationships then I would transition into, "So do you find it more troublesome with guys because of your boobs? I know guys out there are looking for at least 2 big things on a girl." Kind of assert the attention to her chest, but at the same time sympathizing with her. My friend is somewhat open to talking about them and said that she only has a problem when guys are creepers about them. Just a reminder, I am not on romantic terms on her so if you try this, don't make a habit out of talking about relationships with her or else the friendzone will devour your soul. :eek:

So when you do bring this topic up with her, make sure she is comfortable with you and you talk about it maturely and not like a creep. But, don't backpedal into an emotional tampon.

BUT

Imho, I still wouldn't bring it up until you guys are in a heavy-petting makeout session, that way she is too into the moment to feel sexually harassed.

First way shows the most confidence while the second way is the safest route.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Don't be an udder failure :)

My girlfriend has dealt with the giant boob issue all her life. The three things she hates are staring, "honk honk" grabbing, and tweaking her nipples like they are radio dials.

They are of course tremendous erogenous zones. It will turn her on a lot if you rub your chest against hers while kissing her. You can push her t!ts up against your chest with the insides of your elbows. It's the subtle contact that you want. Get her warmed up before you grab anything with your hands.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
My girlfriend has dealt with the giant boob issue all her life. The three things she hates are staring, "honk honk" grabbing, and tweaking her nipples like they are radio dials.

They are of course tremendous erogenous zones. It will turn her on a lot if you rub your chest against hers while kissing her. You can push her t!ts up against your chest with the insides of your elbows. It's the subtle contact that you want. Get her warmed up before you grab anything with your hands.
Thanks man that is gold!! I'll give you rep as soon as I can you deserve for this :rockon:
 

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Yer a good guy. I admire your posts, but, what is the problem with big boobs buddy? You know what they're there for and what to do with them don't ya? Consider it a plus.

My wife just got her's redone to the tune of 38d's and she's 117 lbs. Awesome rack.

Go for it brother. Just don't get too rough. Good stuff. Enjoy them.
 

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
You know that is a HUGE red flag for a married woman to do that. Hint, she's not doing it "for you" lol, especially this particular married woman.
Respectfully, how so?

Mrs.5string had 'em before we married. Eventually they have to be replaced so she did. She is very feminine and has an unbelievable figure. She just wants to maintain it as long as she can. I'm ok with that.
 

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
You know that is a HUGE red flag for a married woman to do that. Hint, she's not doing it "for you" lol, especially this particular married woman.
Lol, how can you just say that?
Maybe this guy is so much of a DJ that his wife IS working hard to keep him.
You don't know, and neither do I.
Just presenting another option.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I met a woman who hated her big boobs. She was a 38D in high school, and everyone believed she was a slvt, which wasn't true-- she's really very modest and proper-- and very beautiful, like Cher Bono. High school was the worst time of her life. She told me about her mom taking her shopping for a swimsuit and there wasn't anything that fit. All the way home, her mom kept saying "Your boobs are too big!" She was scarred for life by the bad attention.
When we first met (from a newspaper dating ad) she wanted to know if her boobs would be my focus of attention, but actually they were a distraction-- she's such a sweet, wonderful lady, genius IQ, and i wanted to know the real person she is. I refused to be drawn into her line of questioning.
 
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