"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girl with on/off boyfriend

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Hey fellas!

So, here's the deal. I met this girl last night, who is good friends with my best friends girl. So the girls come into the hangout, we're just having some drinks watching some hockey.

She was a hard 9. And when I say hard I mean hard. Great looking girl. So, we end up all deciding that the 6 of us, are going to play some sociables and then go to local bar. Turns out that the bar has karaoke going last night, go figure.

Anyways, she wants to sing pretty badly, so I figure it's my cue to get some 1 on 1 time with her just to go up and sing with her too ( she said guys that can do that have some serious courage haha little did she know I actually play and record my own music....)

We're singing having a good time, I can tell she's vibing me hard. We make our way outside, and back to my buddy's house where the now 4 of us are gonna stay the night.

We're both in the same boat as we feel as if we haven't had quite enough to drink, so we keep drinking more and more.... She literally demanded that I give her number, so I'm feeling pretty good.

We're just chilling on the couch, getting closer, IOI's going through the roof. She's got some hair in front of her face, so I swept it out, and she leaned in and had a big smile and I went in for the kiss. Girl was a great kisser :whistle: !

Anyways, where I'm going with this is we basically ended up hooking up all night, didn't sleep, not even a bit. She didn't want her friend/my friend to know that we had hooked up because we were in the room right beside them (I think she was afraid of what they'd say about her on/off again relationship with some guy)

She was feeling me hard, I was making her laugh all night, teasing her, kino and everything like crazy.

So I guess what I'm saying now is, we've now become facebook friends, she's texted me today, thinks I'm sexy and awesome!

I think the only thing I can do is just call and see what she says when I ask her out.

I prefer to call rather than text for dates, more direct.

Any input or suggestions how to deal with this? I guess the real question is, how long is the right amount of time to plan a date with a girl after hooking up with her?

Thanks in advance guys, I appreciate it!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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CantTouchMyStyle

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You're golden.

Anytime really.

But, please, if she starts bringing the ex drama around you, do not hesitate and cut her loose.
 

IamJosan

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CantTouchMyStyle said:
You're golden.

Anytime really.

But, please, if she starts bringing the ex drama around you, do not hesitate and cut her loose.
I don't think you should cut her loose, rather you should tell her that you don't want to hear about her boring ex drama. Say it in a playful manner though.
 
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Thanks for the advice boys. Think I'm good to go. Any good suggestions for a date? I think I'm golden, I'll just keep being ****y and funny.
 
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