yes i know it is wrong to take a a girl from her man i know i shouldnt have but after about 2 months i walked this girl to her house with my friend. then we chilled and me and her got REALLLY CLOSE LIKE DAMN. she asked me in spanish if the other guy wasnt there if i would kiss her i said i dont know then i asked her she said i dont know maybe. when my friend left she looked at me and immediatley kissed me. although she said she kept sayin how guilty she felt she would not let go of me and even gave me a hickey. it was only till her mom came that i left. she told me she was going to tell her boyfriend cause she feels so guilty (she says this while slipping her hand under my wifebeater and caressing my stomach) .now my problem is should he want to fight how can i respond to him i know what i did was wrong but still i would like to have something to say to him in order to defuse the situation although i will fight if need be. any advice thoughts? i dont know how its going to end up with me and her i told her it was nothing bad and to just stay with her man.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Girl With Boyfriend.. SO WHAT
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
KontrollerX
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Hey man if you play you pay.
If I were you and feeling all apologetic I'd simply try and apologize sincerely to him if need be but keep my guard up at the same time incase I had to fight.
Anyway a chick that cheats will most likely cheat on you too so keep that in mind if you want to take things farther with her.
If I were you and feeling all apologetic I'd simply try and apologize sincerely to him if need be but keep my guard up at the same time incase I had to fight.
Anyway a chick that cheats will most likely cheat on you too so keep that in mind if you want to take things farther with her.
IceCream
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It wasn't wrong to, it seems their relationship was dying anyways. Honestly, who cares about the other guy?...Don't be like one of those pvssies who keep wondering if it was wrong, besides, she aint married... But as for the fighting, I would personally try and avoid it.
thanks for the quick response fellas. i mean i would like to go farther with her and yes i now i run the risk of being cheated on also but ill take those odd. she even asked me how do you know i wont cheat on you and i told her with a smile. i trust you. but if something goes down with her man. i want to try to defuse it with my pride still intact and not get slammed into sum lockers being threatend to stay away from her. is there anything i can say in my defense?
IceCream
Don Juan
Stop worrying about the other guy... avoid confrontation, if it comes down to it, fight him... Stop worrying so much man.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
now the bigger question is what makes YOU so damn special that she won't turn right around and play your ass lol.. i can tell you'd cry just like the dude that got the shaft will.
think outside the box.. she cheated on him, she will cheat on you and the next chump and the next life goes on.
think outside the box.. she cheated on him, she will cheat on you and the next chump and the next life goes on.
theunflushables
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Best way to save your ass, tell him before she does. Of course with a little alterations. Instead of "I made out with your girl" try "your girlfriend tried to kiss me". In any case start carrying a baseball bat or brass knucks. Good luck man.
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You'd have to be stupid to consider taking this any further.
just so suave
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i was in this situation i few weeks back. i walked past the bf a few days later and heard him tell his mates he was going to hit me when he seen me, so i just went up in his face and told him to hit me, and he just said he wasnt being serious, and hes not bothered about his gf..lol
i think he was just shocked that i went up 2 him.
moral of the story, dont show any weakness to the bf, dont let him know your scared, unless hes a psycho lol...
i think he was just shocked that i went up 2 him.
moral of the story, dont show any weakness to the bf, dont let him know your scared, unless hes a psycho lol...
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.