Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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So I met this chick on FB. I sent her my default message, and she replied and seemed interested.

We talked the first time for an hour, and she suggested to talk via whatsapp so she gave me her number.

Several days later I texted her and she we had a small convo in which I flirted a bit and she seemed to like it. She told me that she was at her home country but was gonna be back in two weeks. She also said that she would like me to take her to a salsa club sometime once she's back.

A week later I texted her and she seemed pretty interested, I flirted with her and she kind of reciprocated it calling me sexy and stuff, but then she suddenly mentioned she had a boyfriend. (wtf??) She just said:
her: "I just decided to move out from home, so I am now living alone. Well, with my bf"

She told me that this guy pursued her FOR FOUR YEARS before she agreed to date him!, and that she could not have done the same, LMAO. Besides, she does not have any pics on fb with her bf, and does not even mention she is in a relationship...

I kept the convo as if nothing happened and she told me that he asked her to marry him but she thinks she is too young (20), and told me that he wants her to stay at home because he earns more than enough for both. I said that he seemed like a good catch and that she should get married so I we could be lovers; all this in a funy way.

Before I finished the convo I flirted a bit more and said how sweet her lips seemed etc, that I would bite them if I had them in front of me and that I could not control myself.

Now, I plan to keep the flirting and ask her out and see if she agrees once she's back. I do not plan on talking to her everyday, nothing further from the truth, but since she'll be back in a week, I will just text her once or twice in between.

ANy suggestions? since she's in a relationship I just see her as a plate, and low quality because if she really has a bf, what is she doing talking to me, flirting and giving me her number and agreing on going out with me? low quality everywhere, but she's cute.
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Çharismo

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She's enjoying the attention.

Stop talking to her and move on.

She has a man and nothing good will come out of this if you pursue it any further on top of that she is in another country.

Just because she seems excited to talk to you doesn't mean anything.

You consider her low quality yet you still want to get with her?! Have some standards.

There are too many single women out there for you to waste time with this chick.

Move on and pursue other women.:flowers:
 

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Çharismo said:
She's enjoying the attention.

Stop talking to her and move on.

She has a man and nothing good will come out of this if you pursue it any further on top of that she is in another country.

Just because she seems excited to talk to you doesn't mean anything.

You consider her low quality yet you still want to get with her?! Have some standards.

There are too many single women out there for you to waste time with this chick.

Move on and pursue other women.:flowers:
I pretty much agree with this.

A man who considers himself of good quality should not lower his standards in order to bed low quality women. Thats how I run my dating life now. Im definitely more satisfied doing this.

How could you consider yourself a quality man if you waste time on sub-par skanks?
 

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I do not mind to bang a girl that cheats on her bf once or twice. I did not ask for you personal opinion, just steps etc to get to bang her. And preferably from guys that had a similar situation before.
 

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Ignore her bf. Don't be surprised when she texts him "I love you" right after sex.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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pyros said:
I do not mind to bang a girl that cheats on her bf once or twice. I did not ask for you personal opinion, just steps etc to get to bang her. And preferably from guys that had a similar situation before.
Is this the same 20 yr old girl from a thread you just made not even a week ago?

Here's a suggestion. Get this taken woman off the pedestal. That'll help you get laid in general.
 

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Jaylan said:
Is this the same 20 yr old girl from a thread you just made not even a week ago?

Here's a suggestion. Get this taken woman off the pedestal. That'll help you get laid in general.

nope, new one.
 

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Sounds like her INTEREST LEVEL is LOW with her boyfriend. I say call her out and ask her on a date! You will then know if she is playing games with you or not..
 

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pyros said:
I sent her my default message, and she replied and seemed interested

We talked the first time for an hour, and she suggested to talk via whatsapp so she gave me her number.

Several days later I texted her and she we had a small convo in which I flirted a bit and she seemed to like it.

She told me that she was at her home country but was gonna be back in two weeks. She also said that she would like me to take her to a salsa club sometime once she's back.

A week later I texted her and she seemed pretty interested


I just see her as a plate, and low quality because if she really has a bf.

quit assuming things, what she seems to be, may not actually be what it is.

all you have is her telling you things, she is showing no real actions.

you won't know her true interest until you are out with her or having sex.

i think you're wasting your time here, she is living with the guy, she has you as a beta orbiter giving her the attention she wants.

you talked enough with her, set up a date, if she makes an excuse you know nothing is going to happen.



Çharismo said:
She has a man and nothing good will come out of this.
wrong, if he gets laid then something good does come out of it.

her having a man means nothing, she will still cheat when she doesn't respect him.

Çharismo said:
You consider her low quality yet you still want to get with her?! Have some standards.

the only quality you should go by is looks

there are low quality women no matter what they look like.

the bf is probably telling his friends he has a "high quality girlfriend"

when she cheats on him, he will be saying she is a low quality wh0re.

go on looks for your high quality women. :up:
 

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this just happened to me... girl started to show more and more BPD traits...
just next her, she just wants to get attention
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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She's low quality because she talks to you?

Seriously?

She didn't blow you, she talked to you.

I guess you'll know a high quality woman when she comes along because she won't talk to you.

Hilarious!
 

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Tictac said:
She's low quality because she talks to you?

Seriously?

She didn't blow you, she talked to you.

I guess you'll know a high quality woman when she comes along because she won't talk to you.

Hilarious!

she's low quality in my opinion because if she's in a relationship, she should not be: talking to a random guy that messaged on fb, giving her number, calling him sexy, suggesting to go to dance and agreing to meet for a drink etc

That my friend is low quality. Or would you like you gf to be doing the same things behind your back?

I'll report in a couple of weeks, and tell you how things went.
 
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