“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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girl with boyfriend all over me...

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Ok so I met this girl last semester and thought that there was a mutual attraction between us and we did all the usual flirting crap blah blah. The thing is i found out she had a boyfriend through facebook. Even tho i knew this i just ignored it and continued to ask her to go hang out with me at the bars etc and she never once said no and never even mtntioned her boyfriend. Well last night I show up at the bars and she is there already drunk. She leaves her friends and hangs out with me the rest of the night. The thing is she is all over me more than ever before. She was laying her head on my shoulder..rubbin my chest and she even would just hold hands with me while we were just standing there. I didnt do anything with her because she was wasted and I was sober.

Anyway I am gettin kind of pissed off that she is acting this way around me and still has a boyfriend. I was thinking about giving her the ultimatum saying how she cant do this while she has a bf but im not sure what to say... any ideas?

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1) met girl last semester who has bf and flirted a ton with her
2) saw her at the bars last night and she was wasted flirting with me excessively
3) need to know what to say to her to give her the ultimatum
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Sounds like F-buddy material. She probably likes you a lot more than her boyfriend.

This girl has a boyfriend and is still acting like this around you. Not cool. She is not loyal to him, imagine how she will be like if you started to date her!

Has it ever gone beyond "Excessive flirting" ? Might want to take it to the next level just to see what happens. :)
 
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I agree with four aces. whoever her boyfriend is I kind of feel sorry for
 
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Uh, Why was her boyfriend all over you???
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but seriously i feel bad for her boyfriend....thats very mature of you not to do anything with her despite her slutting herself out like that
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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jimbob12 said:
She was laying her head on my shoulder..rubbin my chest and she even would just hold hands with me while we were just standing there. I didnt do anything with her because she was wasted and I was sober.
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Why didn't you **** her? She wanted you then and was in the mood. You wasted a perfectly good opportunity. Stop being a "nice guy"; if she is at a bar and is feeling you up then she wants you. She may have gotten wasted on purpose so that she could get up the courage to be sexual with you and also have an excuse on why she would cheat.

Also, if you are with a girl and talking to her and spending time with her but not ****ing her? You are then just a girlfriend and not a man.
 
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jimbob12 said:
Ok so I met this girl last semester and thought that there was a mutual attraction between us and we did all the usual flirting crap blah blah. The thing is i found out she had a boyfriend through facebook. Even tho i knew this i just ignored it and continued to ask her to go hang out with me at the bars etc and she never once said no and never even mtntioned her boyfriend. Well last night I show up at the bars and she is there already drunk. She leaves her friends and hangs out with me the rest of the night. The thing is she is all over me more than ever before. She was laying her head on my shoulder..rubbin my chest and she even would just hold hands with me while we were just standing there. I didnt do anything with her because she was wasted and I was sober.

Anyway I am gettin kind of pissed off that she is acting this way around me and still has a boyfriend. I was thinking about giving her the ultimatum saying how she cant do this while she has a bf but im not sure what to say... any ideas?

cliffnotes
1) met girl last semester who has bf and flirted a ton with her
2) saw her at the bars last night and she was wasted flirting with me excessively
3) need to know what to say to her to give her the ultimatum
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She wanted to have sex with you. She got drunk so she could blame it on the booze in case she felt guilty or got caught after the fact.

Congrats. You just turned down sex by being a 'nice guy'. What you don't realize is she likely called up someone else to fill your spot.

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