"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hockey Playa

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I know this topic has been analyzed to sh1t already...just wondering if there was any new insight...

Situation: hb6 or 7, shows alot of interest in me right away, we always have a great connection when were together. I rarely see her though, but we always flirt. Never really thought of her as more than a possible piece, and never really tried to purse her. Lately she's been flirting alot more. Even though she is about a hb6.5 , theres something about her thats unique and really turns me on, bumping her to about and 8 in my books.
Problem: she has a long term bf..at the university as well. The guy is no competition for me at all...hes maybe a 3 on the guys scale...i never see them together...she never mentions him around me, she can do way better..im way bigger than him, so fighting is no problem. Moral dilemma getting in the way a bit though...its not like there married..should i wait for her to make the first move?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I say just go for it bro. You're bigger than him, and better looking. She wants you to take care of the matter at hand. If she is flirting, then she wants you anyways, considering she is showing a blatent amount of disrespect towards her boyfriend. I vote to hit it.
 

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Go for it. Not as ****ed up as finding out a girl had a bf for 7 years, but doesn't mention it until getting w/ her for over a month.
 

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bang her. just dont date her she will do the same too you by the looks of it
 

JPFromTally

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You are thinking about fighting the boyfriend of a girl who is a 6.5. First of all you should not put an "HB" in front a girl unless she's an 8 or better. Second of all, if you can't bag a 6.5 in a short amount of time you either need to improve your game or move on or both.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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