"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hockey Playa

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I know this topic has been analyzed to sh1t already...just wondering if there was any new insight...

Situation: hb6 or 7, shows alot of interest in me right away, we always have a great connection when were together. I rarely see her though, but we always flirt. Never really thought of her as more than a possible piece, and never really tried to purse her. Lately she's been flirting alot more. Even though she is about a hb6.5 , theres something about her thats unique and really turns me on, bumping her to about and 8 in my books.
Problem: she has a long term bf..at the university as well. The guy is no competition for me at all...hes maybe a 3 on the guys scale...i never see them together...she never mentions him around me, she can do way better..im way bigger than him, so fighting is no problem. Moral dilemma getting in the way a bit though...its not like there married..should i wait for her to make the first move?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I say just go for it bro. You're bigger than him, and better looking. She wants you to take care of the matter at hand. If she is flirting, then she wants you anyways, considering she is showing a blatent amount of disrespect towards her boyfriend. I vote to hit it.
 

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Go for it. Not as ****ed up as finding out a girl had a bf for 7 years, but doesn't mention it until getting w/ her for over a month.
 

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bang her. just dont date her she will do the same too you by the looks of it
 

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You are thinking about fighting the boyfriend of a girl who is a 6.5. First of all you should not put an "HB" in front a girl unless she's an 8 or better. Second of all, if you can't bag a 6.5 in a short amount of time you either need to improve your game or move on or both.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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