girl with bf likes me, howto

[pyros]

So I have a salsa parter who happens to be a cute chick. We've been going to salsa lessons for around 6 months now, although I knew this chick from before.

The thing is she has a bf, but this dude is the jelaous type. Very jelaous and controlling. She's complained about her bf several times but it seems this guy is wealthy and he buys her stuff and she really likes this.

Of course he doesn't like that she learns salsa and he's suspicious about me too.

Some nights ago me, this chick, and some other students went to have dinner and dance salsa afterwards. Her bf called her, they had an argument on the phone, and she told me, literally:

me: you okay?
her: ...he is a son of a b-itch...blah blah...

Anyway, the thing is that its been three times now that when we've gone to dance salsa (with other people included), and we were going to the bar to order a drink, and she grabbed my hand and we went all the way to the bar while holding hands. First time I found it weird, but she's done it three times now. Besides, she likes to bump into me with her boobs, you know, or when we're talking she gets so close that her boobs (which are big btw) touch me, and there is no need to do this. I think she does it on purpose.

Besides, during the week, when we're done with our salsa lesson we usually talk for 5 to 20 minutes before saying good-bye, but recently she prefers to sit and have a drink, and she pays for both (its very little money you know, around 5$ total).

I think she likes me but she's still dating this other guy so I dont do anything about it, I just let her 'come to me'. If she wants to hold my hand in the club, I let her do it. If she asks me if I want to sit and have a coke with her, I agree. If were sitting next to each other and she likes to leave her hand on my lap I let her, you know.

I dont really understand why she's still with this guy, cause you know, once you call your bf a son of a ***** with anger and snub in your eyes, I dont think you love him anymore. But he has a lot of money which she likes.

Anyway, I think I could get they lay sooner or later but for now I just let her come close to me. I dont want to do anything direct cause 1 she's my salsa partner, and 2 she's still with this guy.

I think they will break up soon, and they did it already last year but got back together after a month.


Thoughts?

 

[G_Govan]

I dont really understand why she's still with this guy, cause you know, once you call your bf a son of a ***** with anger and snub in your eyes, I dont think you love him anymore. But he has a lot of money which she likes.

Seems you do understand why she's with this guy.

I think they will break up soon, and they did it already last year but got back together after a month.

I make it a rule not to chase chicks who tell me about their boyfriends, but I also don't like to be d-ck teased. What I end up doing is escalating things so that they don't try to use me for attention.

Like when she rubs her titties on you I would caress her a--, things like that. I make it perfectly clear (body language) that I don't intend to be toyed with. The more they want my attention the more sexual I get. They either put up or shut up.

Don't fall for stuff like this man because she could easily be f-cking with your head.

 

[christoff522]

Okay, my friend, if she wants money from her bf then why bother?

Just ignore the attention, if she wants you SHE WILL MAKE SURE YOU KNOW at some point.

Until then just ignore it, bro-code, she has a boyfriend, you wouldn't like it if she was doing that to you with some other guy. Ignore and ignore.

 

[Desdinova]

All chicks with BFs, fiancees, husbands, etc are backburner material only. Continue to flirt with them, tease them, but never fvck them or ask them out. You cannot take these women seriously until the man they're with has been eliminated from their life.