"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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latinxtc8

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I got the number of this one waitress who works in a new restaurant in my hometown after she told me that she has a boyfriend? Keep in mind that before getting her number, she first gave me her entire work schedule: days worked, days off even her breaktimes. Afterwards, she told me she had a BF then SHE gave me her cell phone # and said that her BF didn't mind her having/talking to "other guy friends". Is this something I should continue to pursue or is she just having fun messing with my mind?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Pimp-sicle

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Well its obvious that she's being untruthul in this situation to either you, her bf or both of you (more likely).

Girls like this flock to attention and its hard to say what her motives are with you at this point. She could be interested in hooking up. She could be interested in dating new guys, especially if things are rocky with her bf. Or she could be interested in flirting with you to get you to give her a fat tip. I was a waiter for a few years and there were always a few hot servers at every restaurant I worked at. They would always laugh in the back after some chump gave them a gigantic tip just for flirting with them.

I wouldn't put too much stock in this chick, and nothing good can come from this unless your just looking for a quick lay. If she hooks up with you then she's a cheater, and she's already shown you that she lies. All this adds up to =a low quality chick.




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Charm

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This is pretty common though (if she does have a boyfriend). Juggler talks about how he got his girlfriend by basically taking her from another guy. That's the nature of relationships.
 

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Yeah, I get what you're saying and it makes pretty good sense. I've just been out of the game for some time now. I'll call her anyways just to see what happens and if she doesn't seem all to happy to hear from me or makes excuses to not hang out when I ask her, I'll just kick her to the curb. Thanks for the feedback fellas. I'll give you guys an update on this one. Peace out!
 

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Give her a shot,you never know. Maybe you have the time of your life with her,who knows. Just remember dont let her talk about her boyfriend,remind her that "if I wanted to talk to him I would have gotten his number". Best of luck to you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Agree with pimpsicle She just wanted a big tip which I am sure you gave her. Don't see much hope hear if she boldly tells you up front she has a boyfriend. It might work or she might just get tips and whatever else you offer then when you ask for your just rewards she'll say but I told you I have a bf, what do you take me for
 
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