Girl with BF asking to hang out?

[mtlwlu]

This girl that has a boyfriend keeps asking me to hang out,

she recently just got her license so she can finally go out to the bars, and she said "WE" should go out to them, and I asked about her bringing her boyfriend and she says she doesnt like drinking with him. A movie is coming out and instead of watching it with her boyfriend she wants me to watch it with her.

Thoughts? seems kinda strange that a girl wants to do "boyfriendish" stuff without her bf.

 

[Effington]

What is your question, exactly?

 

[bukowski_merit]

common reasons:

1) she doesn't really get the "fresh" attention she craves from men (her and her bf are probably past the stage of it feeling fresh). and she wants that from you. most likely meaning - she just wants that in her head. but you can easily spin it into making her want to have sex with you.

2) she is looking, and knows she is looking for a side sex buddy. someone to spice up her stale sex life with her bf. perhaps she senses something from you that makes her think she can get from you what she doesn't from him.

3) she just wants a drinking buddy/friend to drink and hang out with. and will essentially friendship you....


if she does want you - you need to decide if you'll help her cheat on him with you. do you want that and the eventual drama that comes with it?

 

[MisterMcGee]

i know a girl like this. Me and my bud met her in class and we hang out every wednesday at class and 2-3 hours afterwards. She asked ME for MY number a month after we've known each other (she already had my bud's number). And it came out of nowhere.
It's funny cause im a total rock to her. My bud is really buff compared to me and such, and he does make fun of her too just like me, but he's got a soft spot and usually ends up kinoing her after he says something mean (about her height of whatever)...
But I can see him falling into the friend zone easily. It's just a vibe I get, whereas I couldn't give a **** cause I'm not really interested in her haha.