"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girl with a boyfriend

sportguy

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Got a delicate situation on my hands here...

So there's this girl that used to be into me and now she has a boyfriend. I never really hooked up with her at the time, but she was always all over me. We haven't seen each other in a while and we finally started hanging out again. I made out with her, but it took me a while and she would not go any further because she's in a relationship now. However, she didn't even mention the boyfriend, I just noticed on facebook. She clearly told me she wants to chill, but we can't hook up.

I have the feeling that if I keep pushing (even though it's going to take a while), I'm sure I could sleep with her.

How should I play this?? Haven't really been in a situation like this before.

Thanks for the input.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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thevilittletroll

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your in luck, this is my best friend's game! he only bangs chicks with boyfriends. all the haters out there may say that its morally wrong, but it takes 2 to tango. he's helped me out with this same exact situation many times. this game will work on any girl that has a boyfriend and here is how you do it.

#1 you have to have already built up some solid attraction. since you've already made out with this chick, i'm assuming step one is complete. #2 its no big deal that she has a bf, it doesnt bother you, and it shouldnt bother her to hang out with you as friends, LJBF her. #3 you are a non judgemental type of guy, you dont believe girls are w.hores and sluts, and you definately wouldnt judge her. #4 you like the fact that she is independent, and respect that she makes her own decisions. you think that is sexy about her. #5 and most importantly you know how to be discreet. you are not the type of guy that will kiss and tell. you are good at keeping secrets.

do these things the same way you would normally tell a DHV story. you dont want it to come across as bragging, so just pop them into normal conversations. its ok to prepare your stories in advance.

start with step #2 and drive it home, make sure she completely understands step #2 about you, or you wont get the opportunity to hang out with her alone. once you are alone with her hanging out as "friends" hit her with steps 3-5. keep escalating kino, but keep it light until your finished with all 5 steps. remember your still just "friends" keep repeating steps 3-5 until you start getting real solid IOI's from her. its time for the final step.

play push-pull a few times. go crazy sexual conversation, increase the kino escalation, then push her away, change the subject to normal convo. wash rinse repeat. once she has brought back up the sexual conversation twice, she's ready to go. at this point you can be as direct with her as you want. i like to say i'm totally trying to get in your pants right now.

keep in mind it may take you several attempts to accomplish steps 3-5. and thats ok. its important to calibrate your kino until she's got 1-5 nailed about you in her head. this is a game that you can pull off in one night, but most of the time you will want to slow play over the course of 2 weeks or so. good luck!
 

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^Hopefully his advice doesnt get you beat the **** up. Good luck xD

And I hope theres tons of folks giving some dude advice to screw trolls women in the future. I mean it does take 2 to tango right. *rolls eyes* Dont cry when it happens to you bros.

EDIT: and dont believe his bs that "this game will work on any girl that has a boyfriend". Some girls are sluts and/or dont respect their partners and some girls flat out ignore guys who come onto them when they are with someone. Same goes for dudes. Some are trolls who try and hook up with someones seconds, and others respect someones relationship because they know what it feels like to get diccked around.

I think its easy to say some folks here can be delusional and think pick up techniques are this magic that always works when people are individuals firstly. But hell, I am above getting the seconds of another mans penis while hes still presently screwing a broad.
 

goldengoose

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bang her if you can but dont try to steal her away cuz it wont work. she wont leave her bf. if she really wanted you she would leave him for you. dont count on it.
 

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You know what they say... for single girls, you have the entire male population as competition.

"Girl with a boyfriend," you only have one! :p
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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thevilittletroll said:
your in luck, this is my best friend's game! he only bangs chicks with boyfriends. all the haters out there may say that its morally wrong, but it takes 2 to tango. he's helped me out with this same exact situation many times. this game will work on any girl that has a boyfriend and here is how you do it.

#1 you have to have already built up some solid attraction. since you've already made out with this chick, i'm assuming step one is complete. #2 its no big deal that she has a bf, it doesnt bother you, and it shouldnt bother her to hang out with you as friends, LJBF her. #3 you are a non judgemental type of guy, you dont believe girls are w.hores and sluts, and you definately wouldnt judge her. #4 you like the fact that she is independent, and respect that she makes her own decisions. you think that is sexy about her. #5 and most importantly you know how to be discreet. you are not the type of guy that will kiss and tell. you are good at keeping secrets.

do these things the same way you would normally tell a DHV story. you dont want it to come across as bragging, so just pop them into normal conversations. its ok to prepare your stories in advance.

start with step #2 and drive it home, make sure she completely understands step #2 about you, or you wont get the opportunity to hang out with her alone. once you are alone with her hanging out as "friends" hit her with steps 3-5. keep escalating kino, but keep it light until your finished with all 5 steps. remember your still just "friends" keep repeating steps 3-5 until you start getting real solid IOI's from her. its time for the final step.

play push-pull a few times. go crazy sexual conversation, increase the kino escalation, then push her away, change the subject to normal convo. wash rinse repeat. once she has brought back up the sexual conversation twice, she's ready to go. at this point you can be as direct with her as you want. i like to say i'm totally trying to get in your pants right now.

keep in mind it may take you several attempts to accomplish steps 3-5. and thats ok. its important to calibrate your kino until she's got 1-5 nailed about you in her head. this is a game that you can pull off in one night, but most of the time you will want to slow play over the course of 2 weeks or so. good luck!
Co-Signed.

That's mostly my game too. I love women with husbands/fiances/boyfriends because I always feel if he's doing what he's supposed to then she wouldn't be on me. What always worked best for me is sexual conversation something like "You're gonna love how I'm gonna make you feel" or even something dirty like "Your ass got my **** so hard" haha. Anyway foreplay or "kino" works great. Chances are she's grown bored with him and he doesn't touch her the same way he once did. Make her feel sexy and wanted again. Don't show any fear of her other guy. Give her crazy, intense desire (in your eyes, especially) and she'll submit.

P.S.
Jack off before you hit it. Give her the long 2nd nut because he's probably giving her quickies now. Good luck, playa.
 
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