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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Girl with a BF openly flirts with you, how to bag her?

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How would you guys go about landing a hot girl who is with her bf but openly flirts with you, and practically wont leave you alone....like if i left her alone for a while she, she would be checking up on me.

She has liked me for some time, and even downplays her bf in light of me. For exqmple, he does not kiss her as good as i do or turn her on as good as i do, and i checked this girl was wet when she got with me, tho the place was not right for a shag. She tried to take down my pants, however, i stopped it.

This is one girl who has eluded me for quite a while, gets jealous when i go out with other girls, and is pretty much an attention *****. She keeps her distance emotionally from me these days, but loves to flirt, probably cos its fun to her i know. How would you bag this girl just to add her to your list?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Since i have discovered how to use my ****y funny attitude to its full potential, she has been ever more receptive, submissive and playful. She used to be a master cut-off when things got too hot, but now she takes the bait.

Thought i'd feild this one to the forum, am willing to give more info, but yeh i'd really like to rack her up. The last time, she said she didn't care about her bf right now when i asked her where he was, and i told her thats good as neither do i. And that started the whole thing.

I have been with other girls in the time i've known her, but i've only told her about 2 or so, and each time she really has to find out all about them, etc. Given, its come from a cold time between me and her, however lately temps are rising again, so this time i want the pot to boil.

what are you takes on a girl like this?
she was from my non dj days so there's most likely been quite a few mistakes in the mix on my part.

If not for the fact that she would be the number 1 hottie on my bagged list, i would not bother.
 

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After quite some time i am outta ideas, maybe i just dont have what it takes to get this one. i am thinking forget.
 

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Originally posted by dig it
For exqmple, he does not kiss her as good as i do or turn her on as good as i do, and i checked this girl was wet when she got with me, tho the place was not right for a shag. She tried to take down my pants, however, i stopped it.
Is this for real? You don't need to do anything to 'land her'. Just ask her "So, when do you want a shag? and how long do you need coz I'll have to schedule you in my diary". Invite her back to your place and just jump her already...
 

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Haha. checkmate

indeed. It is for real. I had been busy doing other things and going with other women.

I had never thought of just getting right to the point, if what i am doing is working enough already, and had in the past.

i dunno why i was wondering lately over this, the situation is more complex in my head, but you have cut through it all with your outside persepective.

cheers
 

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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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