"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Girl with a BF openly flirts with you, how to bag her?

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How would you guys go about landing a hot girl who is with her bf but openly flirts with you, and practically wont leave you alone....like if i left her alone for a while she, she would be checking up on me.

She has liked me for some time, and even downplays her bf in light of me. For exqmple, he does not kiss her as good as i do or turn her on as good as i do, and i checked this girl was wet when she got with me, tho the place was not right for a shag. She tried to take down my pants, however, i stopped it.

This is one girl who has eluded me for quite a while, gets jealous when i go out with other girls, and is pretty much an attention *****. She keeps her distance emotionally from me these days, but loves to flirt, probably cos its fun to her i know. How would you bag this girl just to add her to your list?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Since i have discovered how to use my ****y funny attitude to its full potential, she has been ever more receptive, submissive and playful. She used to be a master cut-off when things got too hot, but now she takes the bait.

Thought i'd feild this one to the forum, am willing to give more info, but yeh i'd really like to rack her up. The last time, she said she didn't care about her bf right now when i asked her where he was, and i told her thats good as neither do i. And that started the whole thing.

I have been with other girls in the time i've known her, but i've only told her about 2 or so, and each time she really has to find out all about them, etc. Given, its come from a cold time between me and her, however lately temps are rising again, so this time i want the pot to boil.

what are you takes on a girl like this?
she was from my non dj days so there's most likely been quite a few mistakes in the mix on my part.

If not for the fact that she would be the number 1 hottie on my bagged list, i would not bother.
 

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After quite some time i am outta ideas, maybe i just dont have what it takes to get this one. i am thinking forget.
 

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Originally posted by dig it
For exqmple, he does not kiss her as good as i do or turn her on as good as i do, and i checked this girl was wet when she got with me, tho the place was not right for a shag. She tried to take down my pants, however, i stopped it.
Is this for real? You don't need to do anything to 'land her'. Just ask her "So, when do you want a shag? and how long do you need coz I'll have to schedule you in my diary". Invite her back to your place and just jump her already...
 

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Haha. checkmate

indeed. It is for real. I had been busy doing other things and going with other women.

I had never thought of just getting right to the point, if what i am doing is working enough already, and had in the past.

i dunno why i was wondering lately over this, the situation is more complex in my head, but you have cut through it all with your outside persepective.

cheers
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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