"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hey listen bro. Be good to this girl. My little sister passed away, and when things like this happen it takes an emotional toll on you. Your friend is probably sad, depressed and confused at this time. Now, is the time to just be there for her. Listen to her, comfort her, and help her through this tough time. Forget about should u be a nice guy, or a jerk just be there for her...:rockon:
 
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LaDanian Tomlinson said:
so i was talking to this girl tonight to see if she could hang out and i asked her how her weekend was and she told me her brother passed away. i told her i was real sorry and that to take as much time as she needs before she wants to hang out again.

now im usually a jerk to girls. but this girl is real classy, real nice, and just a great girl, btw way hot. so i dont know how i should handle this situation. my heart tells me to be nice to her and make her feel good by complementing her and everything. but i know thats not gonna help my chances. it was hard to be a jerk to her and tease her before her brother passed away and now i just dont think i should do it. i feel really bad. should i just let her go and just be friends with her or should i still game her?

and also, for some reason i just can't be a jerk to nice girls. i always just want to be nice back. why is that and should i change that?
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Are you crazy? Her brother has just passed away...wtf is wrong with u?

leave the girl alone for a while and let her be with her family.
 
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