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What do you do with a girl who throws out all these IOIs but LJBFs me. I dig this chick a lot, and I've worked thru my oneitis, but she's in my friends circle, so it's hard to ignore her. I'm thinking about just ignoring her completely. She has been on vacation for almost 2 weeks, and calls me almost every night. When she doesn't call me, she calls around to my friends to try to find me, I guess maybe dropping hints to get me to call her??? She tells me she has the most fun and feels the best when she's around me, she laughs and smiles at everything I say, she stares deeply into my eyes whenever she gets a chance, she initiates kino playfully, she buys me gifts and offers to pay for things when we're together.
I asked her how she felt about me on Friday night, and pretty much shut her down when she told me we we're just friends. She called me on Saturday, sounding sick, when I was hanging out with another interest of mine and I acted really cool and she said she 'couldn't sleep' and I told her we'd meet up on Sunday night and talk about it.
We got some coffee tonight, and I played it cool, but told her I was just a little pissed off because I felt like she was leading me on. I listed all of the IOIs above, and she kind of looked at me like she was busted. I kept throwing down hints that I didn't want to hang out with her anymore and she would give me this look of utter despair.
I find it fun to play this game with her, and she seems to be willing, so I'm going to continue, while I work my other options and continue to try sarging. What do you guys think? I'm pretty new at this 'options' stuff, but this is the most fun I've had in my entire life.
What do you do with a girl who throws out all these IOIs but LJBFs me. I dig this chick a lot, and I've worked thru my oneitis, but she's in my friends circle, so it's hard to ignore her. I'm thinking about just ignoring her completely. She has been on vacation for almost 2 weeks, and calls me almost every night. When she doesn't call me, she calls around to my friends to try to find me, I guess maybe dropping hints to get me to call her??? She tells me she has the most fun and feels the best when she's around me, she laughs and smiles at everything I say, she stares deeply into my eyes whenever she gets a chance, she initiates kino playfully, she buys me gifts and offers to pay for things when we're together.
I asked her how she felt about me on Friday night, and pretty much shut her down when she told me we we're just friends. She called me on Saturday, sounding sick, when I was hanging out with another interest of mine and I acted really cool and she said she 'couldn't sleep' and I told her we'd meet up on Sunday night and talk about it.
We got some coffee tonight, and I played it cool, but told her I was just a little pissed off because I felt like she was leading me on. I listed all of the IOIs above, and she kind of looked at me like she was busted. I kept throwing down hints that I didn't want to hang out with her anymore and she would give me this look of utter despair.
I find it fun to play this game with her, and she seems to be willing, so I'm going to continue, while I work my other options and continue to try sarging. What do you guys think? I'm pretty new at this 'options' stuff, but this is the most fun I've had in my entire life.
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