"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Girl who was playing games asking why I'm ignoring her?

devilkingx2

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You are confusing the issues. It's not about teaching women. It's about leaving the lines of communication OPEN. Guys who block women or erase numbers from women who haven't harassed them have an ego issue ("How dare she not respond, doesn't she know who I am.").
hmmm well i can see your point here, idk about OP but lots of people who know me irl think i've got a huge ego so i guess i can't disagree.

In this case OP emotionally reacted because a girl he had sex with once wouldn't respond to him. Imagine how the OP would act if he had sex with a girl 15 times and then she goes ghost. He would do something drastic.

The main point is keep your emotions in check. When the OP deleted her, he got frustrated emotionally. That is very dangerous for a guy.
yeah i can see some very sound advice here, but as long as OP thought logically about his decision and didn't rage block her as a knee jerk reaction then i think he acted fine

if he got angry and overreacted then i'm with you, he should learn to invest a little less and care less to maintain composure.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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PantyWhisperer

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LOL - 'rage block' - I've been both victim and perpetrator of this particular move.
 
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