girl who flaked on me contacts again and says sorry

[LittleBigOne]

Last year i got flaked by a young chick in Spain. We were supposed to have a dinner at my place but she cancelled five minutes before we should get together. She was acting pretty stonecold but we kissed before at her place a few months before that (i visited her in Paris where she used to live and i acted to needy there). However, it pissed me of that she flaked on me and i cutted contact. Now she suddenly mails me again apologising for her behaviour and used an excuse about liking someone else that time (or maybe still, i don't know).
What is best thing to do? Good thing again to pick up the contact again? She wants contact again for sure she says.

LittleBigOne

 

[Alle_Gory]

She's going back to the bargain bin. Unless you're bored I wouldn't bother.

She's probably lonely and needs some attention. Why the hell would she contact you of all people? Do you mean anything to her? Did you do anything significant?

 

[LittleBigOne]

Well, i am not sure i really mean anything to her but i do know i gave her great time in Paris, we had great time there. But after we kissed i acted too needy (my opinion) and it felt like her slipping away from me. Months later in Spain, when i visited her, she was much more distant to me. But i agree, why would she contact me of all people? She knows a lot of people i tell you.

 

[scrouds]

You know something comes to mind when reading your post, LittleBigOne.

Don't feed the trolls

I know that normally applies to undesrables on internet boards, but in this case I refer to your flaked hookup. Just don't feed her. You don't need the b around.

Now I'm sure someone more experienced then me can come up with a plan to lure her in and totally swap out the frame and at best, what? nail her?

 

[Alle_Gory]

i'm 99% sure shes an attention *****, but in any case you never know if its genuine. try something like this:

"hey hon, i"m usually in the gym tuesday's if you want stop by sometime and well talk"

obviously to fit your situation. doesn't require any effort on your part and you see if shes interested or not based on her actions.


edit: just realized the "she flaked 5 min before your date". fvck that, the b*tch is done. this cvnt sounds like a complete waste of time to me.

 

[DJDamage]

Now she suddenly mails me again apologising for her behaviour and used an excuse about liking someone else that time

That's not a valid excuse, rather a piss poor behaviour.

That chick knew she had a date with you but instead she decided 5 mins before your date to cancel on your ass just so she can jump on another man's c0ck.

A chick like that has no respect for you and therefore deserved to be cut from your life. Think about it this way, If her relationship with the other guy worked out, she wouldn't have contacted you and appologised to you.

She wants contact again for sure she says.

She will pull that same sh1t with you again, why do you want that!?

 

[Prodigy746]

lol if she flaked 5 mins before the date i wouldnt **** with her anymore. NEXT... i would schedule date and flake on her ass just to get back at her... thats just me

 

[Kal0051]

I had a girl that was doing that to me, she'd always have an excuse she'd flake, then get mad when she sensed I was done with it. The messed up thing is she was telling me how much she wanted to see me. At this point I still talk to her once in a while, but I'm not putting any effort in.

 

[Alphamale1821]

better yet i would let her back in your life make her work for you by you being (alpha and distant. Make sure you **** her without putting in much effort and after the **** then cut off all contact. That should her show her to waste a mans time and disrespect it.