"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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girl who brings no money on date

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went out the other night and about 5 rounds of drinks in

* so thats 10 drinks,

i kind of liked dropped hints that my cash was getting lower (this was poor pre planning on my behalf we were in a village)

i had this woman literally gushing on my bed so thats all good.......

however ive been ghosted

i presume this is a cardinal sin ive done asking her to politely get her purse out lol

TBF most chicks ive dated at round 3 have usually said ill get this round!!!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ive asked a rhetorical question i can see lmao,
still perhaps says more about her that 5 drinks in she didnt pay for a round.....2018 after all equallity and all that
 
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low quality woman. unless you're loaded and don't like to spend wisely you shouldn't let a woman spend all your money unless you get your drinks cheap.

don't get serious with a woman like that, and go NC if she ever lets a date end without you getting laid and having a good time, assuming she puts out and is a decent date you can put up with her not paying for anything for a while

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however ive been ghosted

i presume this is a cardinal sin ive done asking her to politely get her purse out lol
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what would you think of a friend of yours who stopped hanging out with you the moment he stopped getting free drinks and food from you during the hangouts?

 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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just to confirm she found some money in the end .....my bad live and learn
 
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You're not supposed to ask for a woman to pay, you're supposed to EXPECT that she offers it after a few dates, either by cooking for you or paying for the whole date.
If you ask a girl to pay you come off as cheap and rude (because YOU invited).
 
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id like to add i wouldnt usually have done this ......................it was totally my fault,

i was just presuming that ive pulled off a massive dealbreaker
 
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You posted a thread WHILE on a date??
 
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Gave her good sex...

She obviously was attracted to you since she went out with you in the first place...

Yet she STILL ghosted.

There comes a time where I think we should just admit there is no sense to be made of their brains.

They have us all bending over backwards trying to figure out something that has no logical answer (their brain).
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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RichardTheFrog said:
I still am not sure if this is true.

I know there are people having free sex out there.
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guys who screen for girls that want your d!ck not your money
 
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