"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girl watches me but doesn't smile

Don Rico

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I don't know this girl but she's been watching me at campus. It all started when I was walking the corridor one day, smiling confidently and I noticed her looking at me neutrally. I looked back at her for a few seconds, smiling until I had to turn my head away because I walked past her.

Some time later, I was at the Uni diner. I got the feeling that someone was watching me. I turned my head and it was the same girl lol, 5 meters away and looking at me from the side of her eyes. When I noticed her she turned away quickly, having been found out.

This kept going on for some months (I was intrigued but not that much as to actually go and talk to her). One time I was queuing again at the Uni diner, when I noticed she was in front of me at the queue. She was with her boyfriend (I had found it out by now). She turned to look back and as she noticed me, she became a bit nervous and flicked her hair, starting to chat with the bf. I took out my phone and started browsing, I didn't care to flirt with her when the boyfriend was right next to her. It was quite clear at this point that she was attracted by me though, at least that's what I believe.

Some months went by and I stumbled upon her boyfriend at the street, I didn't knew him so I just kept walking, but surprisingly he greeted me, saying hi. It really came out of the blue as we didn't know each other.
Had the girl told about me to her boyfriend? If so, in what light?

I know that the mistake I did here was to not have talked to the girl even once, but she's in a committed relationship so I simply couldn't give a damn.

From behavioural aspect it's still intersting. Why did she act in the way that she did?


What do you think?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Von

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She's looking to talk to you... period.

If you don't make a move she's gone
 
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