"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Girl was too young, had to break it to her

AAAgent

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haha what a coincidence to stumble upon a thread like this.

Yesterday i called up one of my friends who in the past i hooked up with. We've kept everything friendly and just hang out and drink/eat every now and then.

Yesterday i ask her to chill and i head over to her place in the city and she lives with her sister. We smoke hookah and watch a movie and i find that i like her younger sister's personality. She's 17 and i'm 21 and i would def feel like a cradle rocker if i went after her. but so far she's the only girl that has even slightly peaked my interests in the last 2 months. I thought alot about the older sister which is a year older than me but she's just to easy and not educated enough for me.

So as of now, i do not know the younger sister well enough yet but i don't want to take her out on a date since i've dated her older sister. I think she knows that i dated her older sister but i doubt she knows that anything happened.

senoir in college and senoir in HS.... i dunno what to do...what about u guys?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I think if its a FWB thing morals go out the window cause you're pretty much admitting youre just giving into temptation lmao. if I was dating a girl her age, though (15), itd be weird just cause the age difference is just too big. 5 years is fine, but not from 15-20. she's started highschool ffs
As for you, 17 isnt a biggie for me. you're both much closer to being in the same place, shes gonna start college soon or whatnot, etc.
 

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plus it would be weird to date my friends younger sister, they share the same bedroom as well.
 

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ok this might sound wierd.
but one of the girls that is extra keen to please me is 20 turning 21 and im turning 26.
and for some reason i feel wierd..its legel after 16 here but still..i mean like 5 yr diff make e feel wierd.
 

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AAAgent said:
plus it would be weird to date my friends younger sister, they share the same bedroom as well.
Ummm...Dude? That's sorta every guys fantasy hahaha
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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slickaz said:
..... i mean like 5 yr diff make e feel wierd.
Hahahahahaha. I wonder how weird it will feel when you're 45? THink you should stick to 41 and over? I doubt it.
 

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i could try to go for both the younger and the older sister. well i know the older sister still digs me so i think as long as i game the younger sister, maybe i can somehow work them both together....

but the thing is i don't want to ruin the friendship and i'd rather go work on my direct approach game which would ultimately make me a better dj.

My friend has helped me get through some tough times, and would always be a person i could call when there wasn't anything to do. i know for a fact once i **** her or her younger sister there will be a huge awkwardness. specially if i fvck the younger sister. cuz then i'll have had something with both of them.

Older sister has better body and younger sister has better personality. both bangable.
 

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A "Mate" of mine here is 21, and had a relationship with a 15 year old, for about 7 months.

We gave him so much ****, and its sickening to the extent where we were seriously considering ringing the police. He seemed to think there was nothing wrong with it.

Needless to say she dumped him hahahahaha, just before christmas.
Hes the kind of lad who tries his hardest to get with a girl, then after a week of being with them, proposes to them, or plans a holiday. Its pathetic, HES pathetic....

So yea, steer away from younger people. Theres a lot more girls out there the same age, or older etc, why settle for a kid?
 
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