"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girl wants to talk on phone 24/7, almost obsessed

KillingTime

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Well I met this girl a few weeks back and I've heard it's not a good idea to stay on the phone for a really long time in the beginning, which I do believe makes sense since that is something she would do with another girl.
However this girl basically wants to talk to me on the phone 24/7, I mean it's only been a few weeks and she BEGS me to talk to her. She constantly tells me that she's so in love with me and needs to be talking to me... this past week id say ive spent at least 7 hours per DAY on the phone with her, and she still doesn't want me to get off the line. (Don't think im sitting around on the phone lol, I just have her on the line while I do my things around the house, go buy groceries etc., I don't say much but it seems to keep her happy)

Uhh, so does it sound like a good idea? I've been doing it so far and she hasn't lost any interest, which I find a little odd, figured she'd get tired of me from talking so much.
And the weird part is that no she's not some psycho or ugly or anything, she's actually a model, going to law school, very confident, all around well grounded which I just find really strange that she would get so attached like that, I know a few of her friends and that girl has had tons of guys after her in the past, she shouldn't be desperate at all.

I do enjoy talking to her, even though it is a bit time consuming at times. Should I just keep it up? I mean logically, talking that much everyday, it seems that she should already have lost interest in me but it's almost like she's even more into me... I don't know, never had anyone show this much interest in me.
I'll try to get her off the line sometimes but she usually just ends up calling back and telling me she misses me too much.
What's the best thing to do at this point? It's only been a few weeks but she SEEMS to have really fallen for me, is it safe to give in and just talk to her as much as she wants? I mean it's flattering that this is happening but I've never been here.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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blinkwatt

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Talk to her her for a hour one night,then 10 minutes the next day,tell her your too busy the next time to even talk to her for more then 5 minutes. To start a relationship it is alot of give and take. Just tell her you would rather see her in person then talk on the phone. Or you can say"Im too busy to stay on the phone,just come over and talk to me here" but you better have something to do when she comes over. Best of luck!
 

Distant Light

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On the phone 7 hours a day man you should already be in there, why chat on the phone when you can meet up. You been talking for so long that you should be able to fuvk her now. 7 hours a day!!! thats alot of rapport going on, you should be able to kiss and fuvk her now, if not your just in the friend zone.
 

KillingTime

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Oh no I do see her in person, and as far as sex goes she's already told me that she will do anything to please me.
But she still wants to be talking to me ALL day, i don't mind too much b/c at the moment I don't have that many things on my hands but I will in a month or two, I don't understand how she doesn't get tired of me though. I mean i'm definately not complaining just a little shocked at how attached she seems to have gotten. I do like her though, as LTR material, but uhmm yea apparantly she's not going to get sick of me anytime soon but i'm afraid if we talk THAT much it will still get old fast, at least for me, Ive already completely run out of things to talk about yet she still seems so happy having me on the phone, lol I don't get it.
 
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