girl wants to play games

[judoalex]

I met this chick like 3 weeks ago at a bar, and we were both there underaged, we quickly connected because of that reason. i gamed her and everything was going well and got her number. Shes been flaky alot but i think thats in her nature. i call her. doesnt return calls, but calls me a few days later. then we talk to each other every night, doesnt know when shes going to be free. next night, she calls me and tells me shes in the same bar we met and wants me to go over there cause her friends leaving soon. we meet up, talk more, i apply more kino, and start making plans for 2 days later.
i call her up the next day to confirm plans but no answer, and i call again no answer. im pissed cause i cleared my plans for that day. the day after the day we had plans she calls me to come hang out with her friend thats a guy, i tell her no, im busy, ill call you later maybe to set something up. she calls me later that night, couldnt pick up. i call her.didnt pick up, calls me, i was in train so couldnt talk, then i call her and get no reply back. its been 2 days. WHAT DO I DO>?? i dont want to make 2 consecutive calls in a row...

 

[Phyzzle]

"She wants to play games? She can go fvck the Monopoly guy."

She doesn't sound interested. But what you really did wrong is not making a date.

i call her up the next day to confirm plans

You were sitting right next to her the night before. Why not confirm plans then? The next time you're in contact, make a date, and then show up. Don't try to call her again.

If she's busy for the indefinite future, take the hint, and give up.

 

[sexy_kuta]

"She wants to play games? She can go fvck the Monopoly guy."

U know it!

 

[Pimp-sicle]

I met this chick like 3 weeks ago at a bar, and we were both there underaged, we quickly connected because of that reason. i gamed her and everything was going well and got her number. Shes been flaky alot but i think thats in her nature. i call her. doesnt return calls, but calls me a few days later. then we talk to each other every night, doesnt know when shes going to be free. next night, she calls me and tells me shes in the same bar we met and wants me to go over there cause her friends leaving soon. we meet up, talk more, i apply more kino, and start making plans for 2 days later.
i call her up the next day to confirm plans but no answer, and i call again no answer. im pissed cause i cleared my plans for that day. the day after the day we had plans she calls me to come hang out with her friend thats a guy, i tell her no, im busy, ill call you later maybe to set something up. she calls me later that night, couldnt pick up. i call her.didnt pick up, calls me, i was in train so couldnt talk, then i call her and get no reply back. its been 2 days. WHAT DO I DO>?? i dont want to make 2 consecutive calls in a row...

She's flakey because you haven't elevated her interest level since the night you met. You've lowered it by playing on her terms, instead of leading. When she called you and told you to come to the bar, you should've told her you had plans or better yet, you should'nt have answered. This would intrigue her and automatically raise her interest level.

However, now your stuck playing cat and mouse with a girl who doesn't really give a $hit either way. Remember, you have to raise and peak interest level, then start to play the push/pull game. You can't be on her and then expect her to chase you.

Leave her alone for about 4-5 days. Don't answer her calls, don't call her period. Then call her up outta the blue and set up a get together. If she's down, then you can still salvage this, if not, then take notes and don't make that mistake again.


Note: She sounds like a bit of an attention w-hore, so you might wanna run away from this one no matter what.




PIMP

 

[specialed]

^^^^^^^ said it how it is suppose to be said. well done.