"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girl wants to have sex with me but...

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We both live at home still. She just texted me if I'll be home alone anytime soon, I haven't replied yet but I'm certain I won't be. I mean, that text isn't exactly unambiguous and it's not the first time she's said something like that, but this is the most overt she's been.

I have a couple of ideas but what'd you do in this situation?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Take her out then get a hotel. I've smashed inside movie theaters, stairwells, back seat of cars, and on golf course greens. Improvise.
 

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You have a car? Some of the best sex I ever had was Jeep sex haha
 

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Hotel is the way to go. My dry spell will be ending in two weeks (yay) and when I get there I'll bring her back to my hotel since she has roommates.
 

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I usually like cemeteries. Always quiet, nobody around. In the day time, of course. Sounds weird but it turns them on and it will be the craziest place they had sex in.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Update (can only roughly translate some things because I don't think the exact wording exists in english so if it looks f*cked up that's why):

(Original message) her: are you home alone some evening to come ? :)

me: haha well, if you want me that bad I'll fix a hotel on wednesday evening. Then you'll get to show me what you can do ;)

her: but didn't mean it like that, movie night but oh did you think like that! wasn't totally sober yesterday when I wrote just so you know

me: no I understood as much haha, you know I joke with you when you're drunk :D we can watch a movie, I'll call you later about it busy now

her: text instead

me: ok when are you free

her: don't know yet

me: haha what the f*ck kind of schedule do you have?! text me when you know then

her: yeah but it's like that when you're a substitute


I know she's not lying about her job. It's not the first time she calls/texts me on a saturday night (one time her completely drunk friend picked her phone up and called me right after this girl called me, them being at the drunk friend's place as usual on saturday nights, and said a bunch of things out really loud like how this girl wants help from my d!ck to penetrate her pvssy, lol) but I haven't laid her yet. Now you have a go at it guys.
 

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El Suave said:
I usually like cemeteries. Always quiet, nobody around. In the day time, of course. Sounds weird but it turns them on and it will be the craziest place they had sex in.
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QFT

and don't forget to bring some cheese and wine :D works wonders. sometimes there are some emo/vamp kind gathering there, but they are harmless :)
 

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AttackFormation said:
her: but didn't mean it like that, movie night but oh did you think like that! wasn't totally sober yesterday when I wrote just so you know
She's trying to play Game with that line. Headsup
 

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beatjunkie said:
She's trying to play Game with that line. Headsup
Yeah definitely, how would you "translate" what she said?
 

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she doesn't wanna appear too sl*tty or promiscuous. but she definately wants it. go for it bro, but have confidence and a bit of arrogance (just a bit)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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beatjunkie said:
she doesn't wanna appear too sl*tty or promiscuous. but she definately wants it.
lol, girls are so pathetic. Why can't she just admit she wants me to f*ck her and I'll come and make her feel like the closet wh*re she wants to feel like? it's not like it's hard to figure out with the circumstances and content of what she's been saying. When we get together and I start touching her I'm gonna call her out on her bullsh!t, "look X I know you want me to f*ck you, it's okay to admit it all right?" and then I'm gonna stare into her eyes and lock her in my grasp so she can't do anything but submit to me.
 

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AttackFormation said:
lol, girls are so pathetic. Why can't she just admit she wants me to f*ck her and I'll come and make her feel like the closet wh*re she wants to feel like? it's not like it's hard to figure out with the circumstances and content of what she's been saying. When we get together and I start touching her I'm gonna call her out on her bullsh!t, "look X I know you want me to f*ck you, it's okay to admit it all right?" and then I'm gonna stare into her eyes and lock her in my grasp so she can't do anything but submit to me.
Don't say it! Get the lay, no need to tell her basically "I know you want me bad". It's always better to say less, let her wonder.
 
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