"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girl wants to drink with me

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We were hangin out the other day and we got onto the topic of drinking. She said how she's only done it once and had a few shots. After a minute she tells me she wants to drink with me and gets all excited. I don't have a problem with that, though.

If there's a party going on and I pick her up, I can't really drink as I'll be driving. Seems like it would be kind of awkward to just pick her up and let her drink by herself. I can try to get a ride, but my friends car is busted so that won't really work.

I'm thinking of just not drinking, but is there a better way to handle this?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She wants to drink with you...hence the word with. If you dont drink then you two cant make babies at that time. Find a way that you can drink with her.
 

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Last time a girl told me that she wants to drink with me I got a ******* on the beach :D
 

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She wants you.

You guys dont have to drink. Alchohol is probably just an excuse because if she bangs you, she'll guilty.

Just take her somewhere isolated, make sure she knows you aren't going to tell everyone, and she's yours.
 

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ask her to drink up and get in there...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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you had sex with the cleaning woman on your desk? how did you do that?

hennigans.


hehheh it wont be akward it'll be hey i gotta bottle of scotch and a shotglass you wanna have a drink? and trust me your confidence will only grow, but dont get trashed and toss or anything.
 

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Talk to her. Tell her that you'll be driving, so you won't be drinking this time. Once you're there, chill around for a while, tell her that theres too much temptation around here, and that you two should go somewhere else more "relaxing". Go for a walk, upstairs, in the car, etc. to get her alone. Spit mad game, and you're good.

Next time, get a ride from a friend.
 

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Skilla_Staz said:
Talk to her. Tell her that you'll be driving, so you won't be drinking this time. Once you're there, chill around for a while, tell her that theres too much temptation around here, and that you two should go somewhere else more "relaxing". Go for a walk, upstairs, in the car, etc. to get her alone. Spit mad game, and you're good.

Next time, get a ride from a friend.
What he said.....

and good luck
 

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"i want to [insert just about any fun activity here] with you." is ******** for "i want your wee-wee in my cha-cha."

and she wants to drink with you, not with a party. basicly she wants an excuse to be whorish for a night. I'd had girls use this exact line on me n i banged em out.
if one of your friends has a party anytime soon, with no parents, you can both get drunk n sleep there..thats what i did.
 

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Patrick124 said:
if one of your friends has a party anytime soon, with no parents, you can both get drunk n sleep there..thats what i did.
just outta curiousity, whatd u tell your parents?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Man, I've always had a problem wtih drinking with ch*cks I picked up. Sometimes I'd get extremely sh*tty drunk and by god's good grace we didnt die and the girl had a major blast and wanted to do it the next night and unfortunately it would happen again,...but that was like 2 years ago when I was actually famous for being the only guy who could drive better after a half gallon of Evan Williams and that aint no f*cking joke! But then i got a DWI and changed my whole perspective on that....

umm, look. See if the chick will drink with you and some friends at her place. She's gonna be more comfortable with this idea as long as no one gets too crazy. I did this many times with girls and it was cool and I didnt drink too much myself. Its all about using your head.
 

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Dimebag_Darrell said:
Its all about using your head.
Both of them.:woo:
 

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Dimebag props for the E-dubbs. i feel u on that one baby.

and i tell them i'm sleeping at a guys house. test out a few friends phones, some show up as "[last name]" on caller ID. So i say i'm "sleeping at kyles" and my parents believe it because his parents name shows up on the caller ID.
its good.
 

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Evan Williams. E-Dubb.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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damn thats a new one,

The ones I have is "my cousin evan', "Evil Evan"
 

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I drive everywhere stoned as hell. There was one occasion that I was with a drunk girl... and I almost hit 3 cars on the way to the freeway. The freeway is one block away from my house.
 

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driving drunk or stoned is too risky i think.
dont drive after like 5 drinks. 3-4 if you drive manual.
and stoned..dont drive long distances, dont eat and drive and if its manual, good luck.

everyone seems to think they're invincible. i mean sure, chances are you wont get in an accident driving stoned/drunk..but getting a ticket for either means no license for a bit. one ngiht of fun aint worth 6 monthes with no license.
 
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