Girl wants to be put up on a pedestal

[tryst type]

Here's a short exchange between this girl that sometimes messages me on Facebook and which I know is interested.

Her: So I'm very depressed I just called it quits with the guy I was seeing

Me: Oh?

Her: I just need a dude who knows my worth. Like I don't think he realizes that I could have anyone I want.
Her: He doesn't seem threatened enough

Me: Then it wouldn't work between us either

Her: Hahahaha
Her: At least you're funny

She's a solid 8 I'd say. I'm sure if she wants to hang out now part of it will be to show the last guy her "worth" silly girls

 

[PlayHer Man]

Trying to analyze women through the words they say is a massive waste of time.

The fact that she is having therapy sessions with you on Facebook is a big sign that you are on the road to becoming her BFF. Women don't go to men they want to bone for therapy. They are too busy having sex with them to talk much.

Anyway, you either need to f*ck this girl or stop talking to her. She sounds like entitled trash which means she is only good for sex.

Here is the break down:

- Quality women = Talk about YOU (because they actually care)
- Trash women = Talk about themselves (You exist for validation and attention. You are a pawn to her)

 

[nismo-4]

She's interested in keeping you as an orbiter or a friend. Not in f**king you. You're listening to this princess tell you what she's doing in another castle!

Beta quality dude.

You need to knock her off this pedestal. Do it asap, or just drop her ass. That's my ruling.

Case closed. Stop being an emotional tampon.

 

[tryst type]

Yes I agree with both posts but here's some background;

She's been trying to get me to hang out for a while now even while she was seeing this other guy. She's sent me risqué pics to entice me and said things like I'm more confident than most guys she's talked to and I quote "I bet you're annoyed with girls throwing themselves at you just as I am with like every guy wanting me"

I think she's just an attention wh*re and I don't take her seriously or even have much desire to hang out with her (we actually have never even met just have mutual friends)

I just find it humorous what she said as a reason to drop the last guy she was with.

 

[PlayHer Man]

Yes I agree with both posts but here's some background;

She's been trying to get me to hang out for a while now even while she was seeing this other guy. She's sent me risqué pics to entice me and said things like I'm more confident than most guys she's talked to and I quote "I bet you're annoyed with girls throwing themselves at you just as I am with like every guy wanting me"

I think she's just an attention wh*re and I don't take her seriously or even have much desire to hang out with her (we actually have never even met just have mutual friends)

I just find it humorous what she said as a reason to drop the last guy she was with.

Ok bro.. let me break this down even further. As a RULE --> You should be f*cking a woman LONG BEFORE you find yourself analyzing her behavior. LONG BEFORE. Yes--> LONG BEFORE!!

Got that? Analyzing a woman you haven't f*cked is like buying gas for a car you haven't bought yet. It makes no sense.

F*ck her before you worry about anything else. If you can't f*ck her then let her disappear from your life like a fart in the wind.

 

[tryst type]

Lol I didn't know I was analyzing or trying to I was simply sharing for entertainment because her reason for dropping the other guy was quite funny to me and never had a girl say that.

I don't even want to f*ck this chick so I'm not worrying what rules I'm breaking or following

 

[In2theGame]

You should of played around with that...

Her: So I'm very depressed I just called it quits with the guy I was seeing

You: Oh, well maybe you need a drink

Her: I just need a dude who knows my worth. Like I don't think he realizes that I could have anyone I want.
Her: He doesn't seem threatened enough

You: Sounds like he wasnt Man enough for you. Not so much about your worth but sounds like you need a man who can lead you and throw you around the bedroom to keep you happy

Woman say all kinds of garbage but what they all want deep down is a MAN, a strong man at that who can put her in her place. I bet you would have had interesting replied from her

 

[Zarky]

Her: I just need a dude who knows my worth. Like I don't think he realizes that I could have anyone I want.
Her: He doesn't seem threatened enough

Me: Then it wouldn't work between us either

Brilliant reply. Really good.

I believe she's attempting to branch swing over to you and wants to set up an initial frame that gives her the advantage. Your reply nipped that in the bud. The bud.

Keep your game tight and prepare for a branch swing in your direction.

 

[tryst type]

Brilliant reply. Really good.

I believe she's attempting to branch swing over to you and wants to set up an initial frame that gives her the advantage. Your reply nipped that in the bud. The bud.

Keep your game tight and prepare for a branch swing in your direction.

Thanks I sensed same thing like she was trying to frame how she wants our interactions to play out.

 

[WoodB]

She's interested in keeping you as an orbiter or a friend. Not in f**king you. You're listening to this princess tell you what she's doing in another castle!

Beta quality dude.

You need to knock her off this pedestal. Do it asap, or just drop her ass. That's my ruling.

Case closed. Stop being an emotional tampon.

Yes, don't be an emotional tampon. I did that myself and I have just landed on the Beta pile, covered in gore. I have to work myself up to the Alpha club again.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

She's probably just pining for more likes on her pictures.

 

[jjacob]

Honestly I think he handled it perfectly. If she really has all the options in the world like she says then she probably has the mindset than anyone that would buy into that line is probably an inexperience schmuck.

I vote you let her chase you then flake on her just for funsies.

 

[tryst type]

Wow this girl is definitely attention starved, she messaged me again and now I'm just having fun with it for my amusement (as I do with any girl really)

Her: I'm depressed

Me: Did this guy look anything like me?

Her: No completely different features actually

Me: So then there's no reason to be depressed!

Her: Hahahaha

 

[PlayHer Man]

Honestly I think he handled it perfectly. If she really has all the options in the world like she says then she probably has the mindset than anyone that would buy into that line is probably an inexperience schmuck.

I vote you let her chase you then flake on her just for funsies.

+1 Rep.

For a guy with only 3 posts.. this is great advice bro. Women should be treated like what they are. Trash like trash. Wh0res like wh0res. Flakes like flakes. Nut jobs like nut jobs.

Few women will bother to EARN a man's respect. Therefore, few women deserve a man's respect. But most modern men give out their respect too freely... so its not valued. In fact, its often viewed with contempt.

When a man treats a woman like something MORE than what she is.. it creates resentment in the woman. This leads the woman to abuse and disrespect the man.

Always treat her like what she is.. not what you want her to be. When men give women more than they deserve.. it never sits right. Its like an employer that pays you 100K a year to answer phone calls and make copies because he is friends with your dad. It never sits right with you.

This is why the beta male who pedestalizes women always gets abused by them.

 

[tryst type]

Update: This girl is now back talking/dating the same guy she cut ties with.

This could only mean one thing, her plan worked and he fell victim to her frame.

 

[jjacob]

Update: This girl is now back talking/dating the same guy she cut ties with.

This could only mean one thing, her plan worked and he fell victim to her frame.

Haha wow he sure didn't last long..
I say go NC on her or wait for her to do something stupid and then NC. You'll be sitting pretty for when she fully betatizes him and jumps ship for good

 

[tryst type]

Haha wow he sure didn't last long..
I say go NC on her or wait for her to do something stupid and then NC. You'll be sitting pretty for when she fully betatizes him and jumps ship for good

I wasn't interested in advancing with her anyway, but if her intention is to branch swing to me in the future she'll find it very hard to since her only form of communication with me was via Facebook which I deleted today :crackup: