Girl wants me to lend her $140

[Vice]

Of course I'm not going to give it to her
But she keeps asking me, telling me the reason why I should give it to her is because we're friends
and she told me that she'll pay me back. Over several months.
Of course the answer is "no, I'm not your bank", but what would YOU guys tell her?

 

[DonGorgon]

only do it is she is a true friend of more than 5 years who has done things for you.. Dont do it if she is a ho you tried to bed and she turned you down to just be friends.

 

[MacAvoy]

No way, especially considering your only 17, at your age $140 is a good chunk of coin. People are not trust worthy at your age. Tell her to ask her parents.

Lending money is like giving it away. Your not likely to ever see it again. Or be prepared to lose a friendship over it.

 

[Charm&Style]

No way, especially considering your only 17, at your age $140 is a good chunk of coin. People are not trust worthy at your age. Tell her to ask her parents.

Yes, think about it. A 17 yr old girl comes up to YOU and not her parents, family, relatives, etc and asks you to loan her some money wouldn't you find her shady? I would.

 

[MacAvoy]

Better yet, tell her if she gives you a BJ everyday for a week, you'll lend her the money. Theres nothing like turning a women into a wh0re.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Why would you want to jeopardize a "friendship" by making one person indebted to the other?

 

[KarmaSutra]

If she's that desperate for money and you have the extra lying about doing nothing. Be damned sure she signs something saying you have loaned this idiot so and so amount and she will owe you $___________ PLUS INTEREST ACRUABLE AT END OF TERM.

Tell her this is what friends who loan friends money do. If she squabbles the least bit she is not interested in your friendship.

 

[Rudra]

Karma, that´s weird, why would you want to do that for? Taking interest from friends, pals, folks you hang out with IMHO is rather jewish. But maybe it is common in the US?

Only lend money to friends if you are ready to actually give it to them as a gift. For yourself, write the money completely off as a gift and don´t ever mention it again by yourself.
Otherwise that friendship is likely to go down. Friendship and money should be kept apart anyway.

But this chick...? Couldn´t see any reason at all why you should give her that money.

 

[Bible_Belt]

what would YOU guys tell her?

$10 per blowj0b, but only if she swallows. With hard work, she can make her money in less than a week.

 

[escaleraroyal]

140 is like 2 hours of work..are u nuts.

 

[Paradox]

Taking interest from friends, pals, folks you hang out with IMHO is rather jewish.

Oops! Let's keep the racist remarks to a minimum.

 

[Rhoto]

"no, I'm not your bank"

Just that. If she asks again, tell her to bother some one else or 15 blow jobs on demand, any time, any place, regardless of relationship situation. And she swallows.

And he's 17, at best, his job will get him $20-45 in 2 hours. Get real escaleraroyal.

 

[penkitten]

i have said this before ... so here i go again

any time i loan money to family and friends, they rarely feel the need to pay it back. i only do it when i have extra and i do not need it back because they may never pay it back.

lending big bucks to a friend that never has it to pay it back, can end your friendship.

karma is right about getting things in writing if you want it back.
there are websites just for this.
search the site engine here for lending money... you will find the old threads.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

i have said this before ... so here i go again

any time i loan money to family and friends, they rarely feel the need to pay it back. i only do it when i have extra and i do not need it back because they may never pay it back.

lending big bucks to a friend that never has it to pay it back, can end your friendship.

karma is right about getting things in writing if you want it back.
there are websites just for this.
search the site engine here for lending money... you will find the old threads.

Personally, I never lend money which I can't afford to give away.

 

[penkitten]

Personally, I never lend money which I can't afford to give away.

me either... i look at it like a person standing in the street with a bucket collecting for some charity. do i have it to give and never see again?

 

[Obsidian]

you shouldn't lend money to friends or family members. If they're creditworthy, they should be able to get it from someone unrelated, who won't be risking a friendship.

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

Better yet, tell her if she gives you a BJ everyday for a week, you'll lend her the money. Theres nothing like turning a women into a wh0re.

Agreed.

Occassionally, I smoke weed and if I have some and my girlfriend doesn't. I'll tell her to suck my d!ck untill I cvm if she wan'ts to smoke a joint with me :crackup: ... She does it too.

 

[KarmaSutra]

Karma, that´s weird, why would you want to do that for? Taking interest from friends, pals, folks you hang out with IMHO is rather jewish. But maybe it is common in the US?

Only lend money to friends if you are ready to actually give it to them as a gift. For yourself, write the money completely off as a gift and don´t ever mention it again by yourself.
Otherwise that friendship is likely to go down. Friendship and money should be kept apart anyway.

But this chick...? Couldn´t see any reason at all why you should give her that money.

I don't work for free. Perhaps that's how you do out of the states but I make money to spend on me and my family not friends who try to guilt me out of money. And it's not "jewing" them about borrowing money, it's about making a stand on the value of your money.

 

[RedPill]

Of course the answer is "no, I'm not your bank", but what would YOU guys tell her?

"$140 ought to get me five cסck massages at the very least."

 

[Phyzzle]

140 is like 2 hours of work..are u nuts.

I think he means 140 dollars. Are you thinking 140 pesos?