Girl wants a Relationship

[falcon814]

Ive been seeing this girl for couple weeks... we ****ed the second time we hung out. Shes pretty cool about 8/10.

But the thing now is she wants to be exclusive and i dont know if i want that, i mean i like her but not sure if i wanna be exclusive at the moment.

So i told her that and i guess she really wants a relationship cause some other guy asked her out and she told me if i dont get exclusive with her then she will go out with the other guy.

So i told her to go ahead, but now i feel like an idiot cause i did like her.

What do you guys think should i tell her i changed my mind and go out with her or just let her go?

 

[Chromeo]

so what if she goes out with another guy, if she likes you more she will stick around with you. If you dont want to be exclusive with her then thats perfect. If your not sure yet, just tell her you wanna take it a slow and see where things go

 

[scorpio1138]

If she's really an 8 I would have just said ok to her wanting you exclusive.

Then if another opportunity with a better woman comes along, break it off.

No need to be without if you don't have to.

It's no different than women who "trade-up" to someone they believe is better
than you and they are fully capable of doing this as we know.


Don't show weakness by telling her you changed your mind.
She might actually find the other guy to be a douche-bag and come back to you
for not caring what decision she made. You might have done yourself a favor that way
gaining frame.