"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girl wants a Relationship

falcon814

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Ive been seeing this girl for couple weeks... we ****ed the second time we hung out. Shes pretty cool about 8/10.

But the thing now is she wants to be exclusive and i dont know if i want that, i mean i like her but not sure if i wanna be exclusive at the moment.

So i told her that and i guess she really wants a relationship cause some other guy asked her out and she told me if i dont get exclusive with her then she will go out with the other guy.

So i told her to go ahead, but now i feel like an idiot cause i did like her.

What do you guys think should i tell her i changed my mind and go out with her or just let her go?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Chromeo

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so what if she goes out with another guy, if she likes you more she will stick around with you. If you dont want to be exclusive with her then thats perfect. If your not sure yet, just tell her you wanna take it a slow and see where things go
 

scorpio1138

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If she's really an 8 I would have just said ok to her wanting you exclusive.

Then if another opportunity with a better woman comes along, break it off.

No need to be without if you don't have to.

It's no different than women who "trade-up" to someone they believe is better
than you and they are fully capable of doing this as we know.


Don't show weakness by telling her you changed your mind.
She might actually find the other guy to be a douche-bag and come back to you
for not caring what decision she made. You might have done yourself a favor that way
gaining frame.
 
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