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This is for my friend and the same girl:
I swear my best friend is smooth real smooth. He used to be a very big AFC until he started hanging out with me. This is the text exchange my friend gave me last night between him and his girl. Backstory he's been seeing this girl for two months. At first she was talking about wanting to find a boyfriend and get into a relationship. But now lately she saying she prefer to take it "slow", "see what happens", now she admits she "not really looking for a boyfriend." Typical signs of losing interest. And oh yeah it's an online LDR but they only live two hours away.
Me: Me too...and I'll try to tell you when I may not be feeling good. Do you want to keep our "relationship" going? 2:01 AM
Her: At what point did we get into a "relationship" in the first place? 2:07 AM
Me: I meant just talking geez see the "" 2:07 AM
Me: technically it's called texting buddies 2:08 AM
Her: Oh. Okay. 2:10 AM
Me: What does relationship mean to you? an official bf/gf status? 2:15 AM
Me: nvm probably a dumb question 2:20 AM
Her: Well it can mean different things. 2:23 AM
Me: You know I've been told by my confidante that's the only way we're gonna find out if we're a match is if we meet in person and see if there's a spark. I'm not saying I want to yet, but she has a good point. 2:25 AM
Her: No **** she has a good point but what you don't seem to get is that I am not looking for a boyfriend right now. 2:29 AM
Me: Lol...Oh, why didn't you tell me that from the start. I had a different idea of what was going on. I would've been OKAY with that. 2:30 AM
Me: So just fun for now? 2:31 AM
Me: I would have gotten it but you didn't tell me. 2:32 AM
Her: I guess my brain is just opposite of yours. If something hasn't been directly discussed I guess I just never assume anything. 2:44 AM
Me: I was thinking of being loyal. But since technically we're not official and have no plans to be. It's fair that I can see other girls and you can do the same. 2:47 AM
Her: Absolutely. 2:49 AM
Me: Agreed 2:50 AM
How do you all think he did here? Especially towards the end when his girl flat out tell him that she was not looking for a boyfriend. Even after two months? It made me laugh that he brought up the "since they are not official then he has the right to see other girls" line. I bet she didn't expect that to happen. Hahaha
But now he wants to know what he can do to start making her jealous and stuff since his relationship is open now and he's free.
I think she set herself up into a major trap but he doesn't realize that yet. Now he can turns her losing interest around by making her jealous when he start plowing the field. Haha.
But that's just my opinion. I'd like to hear what the forum thinks on how he did?
I swear my best friend is smooth real smooth. He used to be a very big AFC until he started hanging out with me. This is the text exchange my friend gave me last night between him and his girl. Backstory he's been seeing this girl for two months. At first she was talking about wanting to find a boyfriend and get into a relationship. But now lately she saying she prefer to take it "slow", "see what happens", now she admits she "not really looking for a boyfriend." Typical signs of losing interest. And oh yeah it's an online LDR but they only live two hours away.
Me: Me too...and I'll try to tell you when I may not be feeling good. Do you want to keep our "relationship" going? 2:01 AM
Her: At what point did we get into a "relationship" in the first place? 2:07 AM
Me: I meant just talking geez see the "" 2:07 AM
Me: technically it's called texting buddies 2:08 AM
Her: Oh. Okay. 2:10 AM
Me: What does relationship mean to you? an official bf/gf status? 2:15 AM
Me: nvm probably a dumb question 2:20 AM
Her: Well it can mean different things. 2:23 AM
Me: You know I've been told by my confidante that's the only way we're gonna find out if we're a match is if we meet in person and see if there's a spark. I'm not saying I want to yet, but she has a good point. 2:25 AM
Her: No **** she has a good point but what you don't seem to get is that I am not looking for a boyfriend right now. 2:29 AM
Me: Lol...Oh, why didn't you tell me that from the start. I had a different idea of what was going on. I would've been OKAY with that. 2:30 AM
Me: So just fun for now? 2:31 AM
Me: I would have gotten it but you didn't tell me. 2:32 AM
Her: I guess my brain is just opposite of yours. If something hasn't been directly discussed I guess I just never assume anything. 2:44 AM
Me: I was thinking of being loyal. But since technically we're not official and have no plans to be. It's fair that I can see other girls and you can do the same. 2:47 AM
Her: Absolutely. 2:49 AM
Me: Agreed 2:50 AM
How do you all think he did here? Especially towards the end when his girl flat out tell him that she was not looking for a boyfriend. Even after two months? It made me laugh that he brought up the "since they are not official then he has the right to see other girls" line. I bet she didn't expect that to happen. Hahaha
But now he wants to know what he can do to start making her jealous and stuff since his relationship is open now and he's free.
I think she set herself up into a major trap but he doesn't realize that yet. Now he can turns her losing interest around by making her jealous when he start plowing the field. Haha.
But that's just my opinion. I'd like to hear what the forum thinks on how he did?