"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Girl walks by and says "Eww" to me!

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Now, I know that she was just kidding, but what do you guys do when you and a girl friend walk by and she says "eww", in a joking manner?

What I did was turn around and start walking with her and her friend, saying "I'm 'eww'?" And she was like "yeah, eww.", sarcastically, and i give her a weird look and split.

Then she says "way to walk away!"

Coincidently, I was walking to the bus with another girl and some guy walked away from us and she said the exact same thing! What's up with that?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well, I just saw your Myspace, and I said the same thing.
 

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Rule Number One: Women Suck. Don't worry about it.

MM
 

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Gangster Of Love said:
Well, I just saw your Myspace, and I said the same thing.
That's real cute.

I'm very attractive, thank you very much. It was obviously a neg on her part.
 

oh yes.swayay

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eh, I don't think it really means anything. she prolly just couldn't think of anything more clever to say.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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yep

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I say you should have slapped the b!tch to find out what she was really thinking.

^^^
 

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Vice that's a female opener, unless you actually are "ew," and you probably arent, despite the fact that your myspace comments from females are shockingly LJBF-ish lol. You got the looks tho so its fine. Its her way of generating conversation with you, and you might even want to consider it as a sh1t test.
 

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Axcell said:
"Stop trying to control your desire for me."
Solid.
Thank you, that's awesome!

LostAndConfused said:
Vice that's a female opener, unless you actually are "ew," and you probably arent, despite the fact that your myspace comments from females are shockingly LJBF-ish lol. You got the looks tho so its fine. Its her way of generating conversation with you, and you might even want to consider it as a sh1t test.
Most of them are LJBF-ish, but the thing is, I feel the same way about most of them as well.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Axcell said:
"Stop trying to control your desire for me."
Solid.
HI-5!!! That's more solid than Metal Gear!!!:up:

Hey Vice, you should use this.

Happy Hunting!!!
 

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I wanna see if your "Eww" lol upload a pic here so I can see!!!!!
 

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Dont have one and would have to "Sign" in to see it that's why I am asking him to upload....duh silly!
 

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:cheer: :cheer: AHH your cute bro! Dont worry about it lol, she is probably insecure about her image you should have told her ...

"EW?"
'YA ew"

YOU:"I could say the same about your feet" look down at her feet stare and point "Ew!"

They get very very insecure about their feet!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Mad Manic said:
Rule Number One: Women Suck. Don't worry about it.
:up:

I think you acted pretty reasonably. If it happened to me, I'd probably just raise an eyebrow and/or give them a weird look and ignore it. If I got the idea that they were actually flirting with me (as some people have suggested), I'd probably just respond in a friendly manner.
 

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Vice said:
That's real cute.

I'm very attractive, thank you very much. It was obviously a neg on her part.
You're not that attractive. Not eww-worthy of course, the girl was just a bicth.
 
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