"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Girl walks by and says "Eww" to me!

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Now, I know that she was just kidding, but what do you guys do when you and a girl friend walk by and she says "eww", in a joking manner?

What I did was turn around and start walking with her and her friend, saying "I'm 'eww'?" And she was like "yeah, eww.", sarcastically, and i give her a weird look and split.

Then she says "way to walk away!"

Coincidently, I was walking to the bus with another girl and some guy walked away from us and she said the exact same thing! What's up with that?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Gangster Of Love

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Well, I just saw your Myspace, and I said the same thing.
 

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Rule Number One: Women Suck. Don't worry about it.

MM
 

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Gangster Of Love said:
Well, I just saw your Myspace, and I said the same thing.
That's real cute.

I'm very attractive, thank you very much. It was obviously a neg on her part.
 

oh yes.swayay

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eh, I don't think it really means anything. she prolly just couldn't think of anything more clever to say.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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yep

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I say you should have slapped the b!tch to find out what she was really thinking.

^^^
 

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Vice that's a female opener, unless you actually are "ew," and you probably arent, despite the fact that your myspace comments from females are shockingly LJBF-ish lol. You got the looks tho so its fine. Its her way of generating conversation with you, and you might even want to consider it as a sh1t test.
 

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Axcell said:
"Stop trying to control your desire for me."
Solid.
Thank you, that's awesome!

LostAndConfused said:
Vice that's a female opener, unless you actually are "ew," and you probably arent, despite the fact that your myspace comments from females are shockingly LJBF-ish lol. You got the looks tho so its fine. Its her way of generating conversation with you, and you might even want to consider it as a sh1t test.
Most of them are LJBF-ish, but the thing is, I feel the same way about most of them as well.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Axcell said:
"Stop trying to control your desire for me."
Solid.
HI-5!!! That's more solid than Metal Gear!!!:up:

Hey Vice, you should use this.

Happy Hunting!!!
 

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I wanna see if your "Eww" lol upload a pic here so I can see!!!!!
 

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Dont have one and would have to "Sign" in to see it that's why I am asking him to upload....duh silly!
 

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:cheer: :cheer: AHH your cute bro! Dont worry about it lol, she is probably insecure about her image you should have told her ...

"EW?"
'YA ew"

YOU:"I could say the same about your feet" look down at her feet stare and point "Ew!"

They get very very insecure about their feet!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Mad Manic said:
Rule Number One: Women Suck. Don't worry about it.
:up:

I think you acted pretty reasonably. If it happened to me, I'd probably just raise an eyebrow and/or give them a weird look and ignore it. If I got the idea that they were actually flirting with me (as some people have suggested), I'd probably just respond in a friendly manner.
 

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Vice said:
That's real cute.

I'm very attractive, thank you very much. It was obviously a neg on her part.
You're not that attractive. Not eww-worthy of course, the girl was just a bicth.
 
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