"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Girl Using C&f On Me

jt_shibby

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Hey guys, I don't even know if this is a problem but I haven't really read anything regarding this so I just thought I should bring it up.

Well, I just met this chick the other day at a party and I got her email address right, being ****y and funny, and she seemed really into it. Since then I've talked to her a couple times on my messenger thing and I've been cranking up the c&f and she comes right back with c&f at me! This hasn't really happened to me before, well maybe a little in small doses but she goes all out!

I forget the whole convo but I know I said something about how I was way out of her league and to keep dreaming and she goes "You wish buddy! I'm way out of YOUR league!". Well anyways I always think of pretty good comebacks and keep with the c&f (Stop diluding yourself) and such but I'm just not sure..... maybe I'm doing things right, maybe I should tone down the c&f a little, I don't know! Any help/comments/advice would be greatly appreciated!

Thanks guys
jt_shibby
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Microphone Fiend

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...this shud be in HS section...you think you're too good for us buddy? Well I got news for you... I toook the cool test and Im certified cool baby..Yaaraggghhhhh Im a pirate
 

shiningshadow

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Why would you turn it down? Keep it up!
 

Tomatoes

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3 words....MSN chat logs.
 
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