"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girl Using C&f On Me

jt_shibby

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Hey guys, I don't even know if this is a problem but I haven't really read anything regarding this so I just thought I should bring it up.

Well, I just met this chick the other day at a party and I got her email address right, being ****y and funny, and she seemed really into it. Since then I've talked to her a couple times on my messenger thing and I've been cranking up the c&f and she comes right back with c&f at me! This hasn't really happened to me before, well maybe a little in small doses but she goes all out!

I forget the whole convo but I know I said something about how I was way out of her league and to keep dreaming and she goes "You wish buddy! I'm way out of YOUR league!". Well anyways I always think of pretty good comebacks and keep with the c&f (Stop diluding yourself) and such but I'm just not sure..... maybe I'm doing things right, maybe I should tone down the c&f a little, I don't know! Any help/comments/advice would be greatly appreciated!

Thanks guys
jt_shibby
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Microphone Fiend

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...this shud be in HS section...you think you're too good for us buddy? Well I got news for you... I toook the cool test and Im certified cool baby..Yaaraggghhhhh Im a pirate
 

shiningshadow

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Why would you turn it down? Keep it up!
 

Tomatoes

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3 words....MSN chat logs.
 
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