"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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girl u like has a boyfriend!!!

tunnel

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OK.
It's not like i chose a girl with a boyfriend as my next victim. I have liked this girl for quite a while, and i just started working my
DJ skills on her about 2 weeks ago.

I have also purchased "Double Your Dating" by De'Angelo.
This means i was using the ****y but funny persona.

Now before i found this website, i was making the common mistake of kissing her ass far too much.

Since i've been using this new persona i think she has now just randomly got a boyfriend to tend to her ever so delicate ego.

Hopefully she will see the light and just dump him, but in the mean time i don't know how to counteract this move she has made.

She constantly tries to make me jealous by saying oh i saw Jon today hes sooo sweet!!! I just simply go on about this really hot girl i met on the weekend in vivid detail lol! This gets to her, but surely this can't go on forever what should i do?:confused:

tunnel / Elti DJ
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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nightryder

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By the looks of it, your doing great. Just keep doing what your doing and follow that e-book you bought cause its has great material. My friend was in the same situation. Try talking to her while her boyfriend is there. If he wants to start fighting just pretend that you didn't know that they were going out. By talking to her in front of her boyfriend it shows that your the alpha male and your not afraid of anything especially her boyfriend. Keep up the good work,
 

G_Nice_06

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You are in a really tough situation that i was in once. I can't tell you exactly what to do about this one, but I can tell you what not to do.

when I was in your situation I told the girl I liked her. She was cool wit that but she wasn't gonna break up wit her boyfriend just because i liked her either. What ended up happening was she told her boyfriend, and he was trying to fight me over that dumb @$$ situation. But they still go out to this day. It seemed to have worked out for them but I was left lonely.

I suggest that you act quickly before her feeling get to deep for this guy.
 

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Don't ever tell her know that you like her. Show her but you still need be a challenge.
 
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