"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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need opinions folks, haven't had a txt like this and i'd rather not misinterpret

"OMG! a customer just came in at work and he laughed just like ur laugh, i seriously thought it was you"

we used to work together and i gamed her a bit, nothing too serious, mostly just fun and games.

she sent me this txt while i was up in northern ontario fishing and seeing old friends(including women), my facebook had my plans outlined and i'm sure she saw them.

she's pretty immature for a 20 year old, so i'm not sure how to take this. my laugh? Ok...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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yesterday

i've been busy as hell ever since (drove back to town, slept hard, took my gas technician exam) and just finally about an hour ago i got home. i've had my phone off cuz i didn't want to be disturbed and i left it at home charging during my exam, just saw teh txt this hour
 
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Sounds like shes just kicking the tires on you. If you decide to reply, wait a day or so, and give her some C&F comment or something.
 
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try something like "did he have a long thick and brown.. neck like mine too?"
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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