so theres a girl that i sort of run in the same circles with. i see her maybe once a month when we happen to be hanging out with the same people. i never noticed it before but she had approaching me to talk in the past. at the time my friend was really into her, so i never even gave her a conversation that lasted very long. but now my friend has lost interest as she was obviously not ineterested in him and i can move in (its been 2 months, in accordance to man law lol).
recently, i ran into her at a club, and i could tell she was buzzing a little because she pretty went straight up to me and started kino-ing. i played it off, talked to different people and eventaully made it back to her to a few times. had some conversations before her friend who driving had to go and took her off- not before she asked me to call her. i said i would but i forgot i didint have her number so i ended facebook messaging for it, which i got and then the i sent her a text to hang on a certain date. she told me should couldnt but right away she mentioned that after thursday she would be down.
on friday, we saw randomly saw eachother at a bowling alley because there was some major reunion going on. at the end i told her i would be gone the entire weekend (vegas!) but i asked her to hang out on sunday.
in the end, vegas obviously tired me out and on sunday i sent her text asking if she wanted to hang out on monday. after making me wait like 5 hours before responding she told me would be busy until 9 on monday. which i realized was stupid afterwards, because i already knew that on mondays she had some meeting that went to 9. i was still a little wacked out from the city and so i told her something like arright next time.
do you guys think i should continue to pursure? i dont really want to look desperate, or should i let it cool off before trying anything. as i mentioned, i will rpobably see her again anyways, so i could just play it off cool i guess.
if anything is unclear, let me know.
on a side note, i was thinking while was high the other day that guys should talk about our issues more to eachother like girls do. its too bad its seen as gay, lol.
recently, i ran into her at a club, and i could tell she was buzzing a little because she pretty went straight up to me and started kino-ing. i played it off, talked to different people and eventaully made it back to her to a few times. had some conversations before her friend who driving had to go and took her off- not before she asked me to call her. i said i would but i forgot i didint have her number so i ended facebook messaging for it, which i got and then the i sent her a text to hang on a certain date. she told me should couldnt but right away she mentioned that after thursday she would be down.
on friday, we saw randomly saw eachother at a bowling alley because there was some major reunion going on. at the end i told her i would be gone the entire weekend (vegas!) but i asked her to hang out on sunday.
in the end, vegas obviously tired me out and on sunday i sent her text asking if she wanted to hang out on monday. after making me wait like 5 hours before responding she told me would be busy until 9 on monday. which i realized was stupid afterwards, because i already knew that on mondays she had some meeting that went to 9. i was still a little wacked out from the city and so i told her something like arright next time.
do you guys think i should continue to pursure? i dont really want to look desperate, or should i let it cool off before trying anything. as i mentioned, i will rpobably see her again anyways, so i could just play it off cool i guess.
if anything is unclear, let me know.
on a side note, i was thinking while was high the other day that guys should talk about our issues more to eachother like girls do. its too bad its seen as gay, lol.
