"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Girl tries to make me qualify myself

Beachbum5963

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Ok I was talking to an HB and I opened her with saying "you're pretty cute but are you fun and interesting too bc I'm picky." She then said "well what makes you fun and interesting bc you're not the only pick one"

So what do I say to this. Should I just answer or what should I do?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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cablecow15

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lol i love picturing you being asked that , then pulling out your phone to ask on a forum , XD , you need to be able to think of witty stuff your self
 

Beachbum5963

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Haha yes I told her I would be back in 30 minutes with a response..I just end up qualifying myself but I wanted to know in the future what to say.
 

Night-hawk

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Like Cablecow15 said, be witty. Say something more unpredictable - be that in what you say or how you say it- than you'd think she'd get from most guys.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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PrettyBoyAJ

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Only way to see is to find out, meet me at xxxx
 

cablecow15

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wait , so are you talking to her face to face ? or in messages online , because pausing between each questions she asks and running off to post on a forum sounds silly , unless of course your messaging online.

I just painted a picture in my head when i read your first post and now im starting to think i misinterpreted how your communicating with her
 
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