"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Girl trieda friendzone me, should i bang her former best friend/ now enemy?

Infern0

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Yeah so tbf i ****ed things up last week and got ljbf so i went nc straight away. She still stalking my social media tho and i know she'll be back before long.

Her former best friend of 2 years but now they hate each other randomly hmu and this girl was crushing on me before when i was hooking up with the first girl.

I could probably send hampster into nuclear meltdown here but is that

A) a good idea
Or
B) me being petty

What say you
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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You need us to tell her to bang her or not? I'd say do it. When are you gonna get another opportunity like this? She basically just said she doesn't want to sleep with you. And you screwing the other girl basically says 'ok I'll have sex with someone else, I don't need you'. Do it. Just for ****s and gigs really.
 

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yeah do it bro give these bishes a taste of their own medicine. let that hoe know what shes missing. fuk the chit out of her friend!
 

Masculinity

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I honestly can't help you unless you speak real English.
I'm with Danger on this one. What's with this nonsense trend to misspell words intentionally.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Who Dares Win

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So you feel like punishing a girl who friendzoned you by banging her friend?

So she friendzoned you because she has no interest in you, what makes you think she will change her mind or get hurt if you bang her friend (now enemy)?
I believe that would just make her happy cause she will consider herself high value if she can reject someone that her friend instead would accept...she will feel better than her, is that a revenge?
You dont even have a main role in that, just a tool...unless of course you will look like a desperate downgrading his standard to get a hole.

I suggest you do whatever you want regardless this gossip style game of thrones plot.
 

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If she passes the boner test, and there aren't any social circle comebacks, then I don't see why you wouldn't.

Thin line I suppose, between just being a poon hound that gives no fvcks, and being a b*tch who's gaming to get back at people.

Technically, I think not going after her friend could be being a b*tch. If you don't do it, based on worrying about what this friendzone girl thinks.

Take the friendzone girl out of the equation entirely, and what would you do?
Friendzone girl will be back, she wont resist for long i ****ed up there because i had **** going on, but going hard NC already got her second guessing.

As for her friend hmm.. i wouldnt go out of my way for her bit if she wanted to come over and netflix then hop on top and take a ride then its cool

I probably will give it a miss because its an ego play and does seem childish thinking about it.
 

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you getting laid is the goal here, the opinions of women who won't fvck you are irrelevant
 

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I probably will give it a miss because its an ego play and does seem childish thinking about it.
<-----There ya go!
Its best not to rely on behavior like this. Don't take the easy route just because you can or your boner wants you to. This is short term thinking relying on emotions/validation/impulses(like women do). Don't act like those women we complain about the most. Push yourself to be a stronger better person.
 
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