"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girl tricks me into taking selfie with her

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So....first she was like haha this is hilarious, look it. As we are walking...I'm all yea cool.
Then she says look at this, and as I inch closer she raises her phone up and gets face to face closer to take a freaking high angle selfie with me. Wtf.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I mean...I love my privacy above anything. So I turned away and she didn't get the selfie.
I forgot to mention that this was at the work building in the lobby. And I've yet to ask her for her number. Just casually flirted. I know the rule. Don't fvck up ur job for a girl u know.
 

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I do want to date her. So of course I came off as sweet and charming. But I know the rule.
But she's obviously taking it up a notch and I'm thinking she feels rejected. So if my hamster is running off that, maybe hers is on over drive?
What's the next move here?
 

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bang that puzzy
 

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It means she likes you and is flirting and being playful. Whip out your own camera and take a pic of her, now ask her to make her silly pose *snap*, now your sexiest pose *snap*, now pull your shirt strap off one shoulder and bite on your finger *snap*..... she gets all into it and worked up, leading to some wild adventures.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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