Here's one for you guys. I've been dating this girl for a couple of months. It started as us being friends and we are still friends...the rule is to not label it as anything. Well my career has taken off and I took her to a festival i dj'd at over the weekend. Pretty big late night shows, 5000 people. The first and second days were great...we were on time and in synch like it has been the entire time. The next night she ate MDMA...which I warned her that people would be offering her that b/c she was behind the scenes now...but she went ahead. The next morning we wake up and everything is completely different. The car ride was 7 hours of pure hell and I have to believe that the drugs were part of her attitude. For the past two months all she has talked about is how I make her feel, how she feels like she has known me for 5000 years, how when she's with me she feels more electric than ever and how i am the only person to ever really make her ***.
Anyway...on the ride home there was none of that sweet ****. Here are some of the things I heard from her:
"so how much did you really like me? did you think i was your soulmate or something?"
"you and i are friends and friends don't touch."
"i feel like i have known you all of my life and now i need to get away."
"i need my space right now."
^^^^^That's some cold ****e!
I agreed with the space thing...what I didn't agree with was being friends with no touching. Told her I was not the guy friend type and that's not the goal here, if that's what she is looking for then she needs to look elsewhere, again though not sure how much of this was depression from the drug use. I know this chic likes being with me and I can see it in her eyes when we are in the zone.
I asked her about dating other people and she looked at me and said "that's a stupid question that I am not even going to answer. I have told you that I don't want to date other people and if i were being sarcastic I'd say YES". So confused by that.
So by the end of the 8 hour drive we get out of the car and she asks me what I need to make it work...I tell her I need it to go back to where it was the day we left for the festival. I told some jokes, she smiled and I said "see that can happen" and she said "yeah, it can". I am completely confused as to what has happened here and I know she said she is scared and overwhelmed by what is happening with us...but man it was a complete 180 in the matter of 24 hours. I like this girl a ton and that's obvious...but I won't take this crap. I am going to give her the space she asked for and I told her that I need some as well. I won't contact her, but I'm wondering will she wake up and remember that we had a good thing going or will she just not go back to that moment. She said "now you have seen the bad side and i've seen your bad side. is there a way we can be together, but not be mean to each other?" Not sure what that means. Not sure if she is running. Not sure of anything. I know we both have tickets to a show on Friday night and I'm not sure if taking a date would snap her out of it or what. Advice needed. I meet tons of girls doing what I do...but I am into this one b/c we have so much in common and I feel a spark with her.
Anyway...on the ride home there was none of that sweet ****. Here are some of the things I heard from her:
"so how much did you really like me? did you think i was your soulmate or something?"
"you and i are friends and friends don't touch."
"i feel like i have known you all of my life and now i need to get away."
"i need my space right now."
^^^^^That's some cold ****e!
I agreed with the space thing...what I didn't agree with was being friends with no touching. Told her I was not the guy friend type and that's not the goal here, if that's what she is looking for then she needs to look elsewhere, again though not sure how much of this was depression from the drug use. I know this chic likes being with me and I can see it in her eyes when we are in the zone.
I asked her about dating other people and she looked at me and said "that's a stupid question that I am not even going to answer. I have told you that I don't want to date other people and if i were being sarcastic I'd say YES". So confused by that.
So by the end of the 8 hour drive we get out of the car and she asks me what I need to make it work...I tell her I need it to go back to where it was the day we left for the festival. I told some jokes, she smiled and I said "see that can happen" and she said "yeah, it can". I am completely confused as to what has happened here and I know she said she is scared and overwhelmed by what is happening with us...but man it was a complete 180 in the matter of 24 hours. I like this girl a ton and that's obvious...but I won't take this crap. I am going to give her the space she asked for and I told her that I need some as well. I won't contact her, but I'm wondering will she wake up and remember that we had a good thing going or will she just not go back to that moment. She said "now you have seen the bad side and i've seen your bad side. is there a way we can be together, but not be mean to each other?" Not sure what that means. Not sure if she is running. Not sure of anything. I know we both have tickets to a show on Friday night and I'm not sure if taking a date would snap her out of it or what. Advice needed. I meet tons of girls doing what I do...but I am into this one b/c we have so much in common and I feel a spark with her.
