"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Girl took 6 weeks to reply?

queenstownrox

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Girl took month and a half to reply and she replied with a thumbs up?

This girl took 6 weeks to reply to my Facebook message and it was just two thumbs up was it an accident? she's a tourist whos not from here.Weve only talked two times for 10 mins but i really like her.How we met was they kept looking at me and my friend then they sat near us.

I originally messaged her "I may be going to jail so im just saying this incase I never see you again in NZ.later on if life If you ever need money or anything or
like why did it take ages for her to reply did she just accidentally press the thumbs up button.Is she interested or not? She replied the same day before with my other messages.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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wtf? who really cares about the thumbs up. you think she is going to reply after you send her a message like that? i swear these threads get worse n worse with each one.
 

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dat grammur doh.


Yes OP, she's super interested and I bet she's just waiting for you to reply to her thumbs up. It would be wise to respond to her thumbs up right away. Make sure you're always available to her and make sure to message her a lot, but when she asks you if you like her, always deny it. Tell her you're just a good friend. Then later down the line when you finally managed to get a deep and close bond with her, you'll be ready to tell your true feelings to her and she will react positively and give you the best sex you've ever had in your life. Trust me on this, it's how all DJs here get laid.
 

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Sign of high interest.... pursue...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yes OP, she's super interested and I bet she's just waiting for you to reply to her thumbs up. It would be wise to respond to her thumbs up right away. Make sure you're always available to her and make sure to message her a lot, but when she asks you if you like her, always deny it. Tell her you're just a good friend. Then later down the line when you finally managed to get a deep and close bond with her, you'll be ready to tell your true feelings to her and she will react positively and give you the best sex you've ever had in your life. Trust me on this, it's how all DJs here get laid.

Made me chuckle.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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queenstownrox

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Its not a joke im serious.Im curios if it meant she approves of the message or whatever
 

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queenstownrox said:
Its not a joke im serious.Im curios if it meant she approves of the message or whatever
She's not interested. Move on.

Seriously...even if the girl took more than a couple days to respond...with nothing but a thumbs up...I would say she's not interested.

She gave the thumbs up because she didn't know how else to respond. If she was interested she would have gotten back within a day or two MAX, and she would have somehow tried to keep the conversation going. She did neither, and her "thumbs up" was her just trying to be polite.

Not interested in my opinion.
 

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this is THE funniest thread I've ever read

unless she went on vacation for 6+ weeks to a third world country with no internet or no frills camping for 6 weeks without telling you when she was leaving (so that you messaged her after she left) and then responded immediately upon coming back then she's not interested

did you see how many insanely unlikely hoops I had to jump through to make a theoretical scenario where things could've played out like this and she could be interested? that's because the odds are 1 in a million

I still can't believe this isn't a joke thread tho.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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