"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girl took 6 weeks to reply?

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Girl took month and a half to reply and she replied with a thumbs up?

This girl took 6 weeks to reply to my Facebook message and it was just two thumbs up was it an accident? she's a tourist whos not from here.Weve only talked two times for 10 mins but i really like her.How we met was they kept looking at me and my friend then they sat near us.

I originally messaged her "I may be going to jail so im just saying this incase I never see you again in NZ.later on if life If you ever need money or anything or
like why did it take ages for her to reply did she just accidentally press the thumbs up button.Is she interested or not? She replied the same day before with my other messages.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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wtf? who really cares about the thumbs up. you think she is going to reply after you send her a message like that? i swear these threads get worse n worse with each one.
 
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dat grammur doh.


Yes OP, she's super interested and I bet she's just waiting for you to reply to her thumbs up. It would be wise to respond to her thumbs up right away. Make sure you're always available to her and make sure to message her a lot, but when she asks you if you like her, always deny it. Tell her you're just a good friend. Then later down the line when you finally managed to get a deep and close bond with her, you'll be ready to tell your true feelings to her and she will react positively and give you the best sex you've ever had in your life. Trust me on this, it's how all DJs here get laid.
 
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Sign of high interest.... pursue...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yes OP, she's super interested and I bet she's just waiting for you to reply to her thumbs up. It would be wise to respond to her thumbs up right away. Make sure you're always available to her and make sure to message her a lot, but when she asks you if you like her, always deny it. Tell her you're just a good friend. Then later down the line when you finally managed to get a deep and close bond with her, you'll be ready to tell your true feelings to her and she will react positively and give you the best sex you've ever had in your life. Trust me on this, it's how all DJs here get laid.

Made me chuckle.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Its not a joke im serious.Im curios if it meant she approves of the message or whatever
 
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Its not a joke im serious.Im curios if it meant she approves of the message or whatever
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She's not interested. Move on.

Seriously...even if the girl took more than a couple days to respond...with nothing but a thumbs up...I would say she's not interested.

She gave the thumbs up because she didn't know how else to respond. If she was interested she would have gotten back within a day or two MAX, and she would have somehow tried to keep the conversation going. She did neither, and her "thumbs up" was her just trying to be polite.

Not interested in my opinion.
 
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this is THE funniest thread I've ever read

unless she went on vacation for 6+ weeks to a third world country with no internet or no frills camping for 6 weeks without telling you when she was leaving (so that you messaged her after she left) and then responded immediately upon coming back then she's not interested

did you see how many insanely unlikely hoops I had to jump through to make a theoretical scenario where things could've played out like this and she could be interested? that's because the odds are 1 in a million

I still can't believe this isn't a joke thread tho.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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