girl told you her exs are all black or was a black guy

[joe45]

would u contunue dating a girl-this is 2nd date and she tells u that her ex bf was black guy. for myself i find that kind of weird and little disgusting. i don't think i would marry her or date her. i don't really believe in that kind of stuff. i mean i wouldn't date a black girl.
how about you what if she told u her ex was a black guy or most of her ex's are blacks-would u contiunue dating her
i still stay friends with her so i can meet other girls-hook ups, dating wise nooo
if they are all her ex's are black guy would u be ok with it., or she said one of her ex was a black guy

 

[FairShake]

My peen's a little small so....

But seriously, it's 2009, most people in our generations (18-30 I'm assuming) have dated outside their race.

And even those that haven't don't find it disgusting. For ****'s sake man, the problem isn't her dating Blacks it's YOU not evolving into the 21st century.

 

[bukowski_merit]

???

where im from - almost everyone has tried outside their race at least once. im white and have had many black women and latinas in my bed.... and also many white women who have been with black guys....

if you're turned off and not attracted to other races - thats fine - personal preference... im turned off by women with no t&a...

but once you start disqualifying women because they've been with a certain race - thats when you're nearing racist territory.

 

[Da Realist]

What's wrong with black guys?

 

[bukowski_merit]

What's wrong with black guys?

they have huge 10 inch horse c@cks and super long tongues....
all of them....

havent you ever seen a porno?

:crackup:

(yes, im joking; <- sad, i have to put that here but some people on this board arent good with sarcasm)


ps: i take it as a HUGE compliment if a girl doesnt normally date the type of guy i am.

 

[KontrollerX]

Preference is preference.

If you don't like that sort of thing then don't date her.

I'd say the same to a black dude that was creeped out by a black girl he was thinking about dating telling him that all her previous boyfriends were white, asian, mexican or some other race.

If you get creeped out by that sort of thing its an internal reaction and not something you have much control over similar to how you like a certain meal or find a certain kind of woman attractive.

Preference does not make you a racist.

 

[Bluesteak]

Around here we call that "Jungle Fever".

 

[fertileTurtle]

Whenever a chick tells me that I just tell her: We all look black in the dark, baby!!

 

[bukowski_merit]

Preference is preference.

If you don't like that sort of thi ng then don't date her.

I'd say the same to a black dude that was creeped out by a black girl he was thinking about dating telling him that all her previous boyfriends were white, asian, mexican or some other race.

If you get creeped out by that sort of thing its an internal reaction and not something you have much control over similar to how you like a certain meal or find a certain kind of woman attractive.

Preference does not make you a racist.

well, we're splitting hairs here, but technique it is "racist" #1 because its a negative decision based on race. #2 it shows racial intolerance.

if you're applying for a job and some how discover the person employed hefore you was black, and u didnt want the job then - that would be racist as well.

just because its a personal preference that comes from inside (aka our social conditioning) that doesnt excuse it from falling under racism...

mainly because it's a broad term that can really be used for a lot of different things...

and it definitely can apply the opposite way as well (black guy not liking a black woman once finding out she dated white....

 

[Da Realist]

Preference does not make you a racist.

He wasn't the one sleeping with the black guys though. My thing is why is he getting caught up in the fact they were another color instead of wondering why she's telling him about the other penises she been sampling? It's like worrying about the paint job instead of if the car runs right.

 

[(JJ)]

Kontroller is right. I dont know where any of you are from, but here in America, we get really caught up in political correctness and not being considered racist. At the same time, we throw the word racist around all over the place. This is not racism. He is not discriminating against a person because of their race, he is merely making his preference known. At this point in my life, I can say that I wouldn't date a black girl, because 99 out of 100 of em are loud and obnoxious. Does that make me a racist? No. It makes me someone who doesn't like loud, overbearing, obnoxious women.

There still is a social stigma that comes with white girls dating black guys. The saying "once you go black, you don't go back" isn't quite accurate. it's more like "once you go black, not many white guys will want you any more." However, I look through a cultural lens of being a southerner. While there's not any Jim Crowe laws anymore, there still is a little bit less proportion in favor of affirmative action and whatever other words that can be used to describe that sort of thing. So all I can comment on is what I've seen here.

 

[ketostix]

Preference is preference.

If you don't like that sort of thing then don't date her.

I'd say the same to a black dude that was creeped out by a black girl he was thinking about dating telling him that all her previous boyfriends were white, asian, mexican or some other race.

If you get creeped out by that sort of thing its an internal reaction and not something you have much control over similar to how you like a certain meal or find a certain kind of woman attractive.

Preference does not make you a racist.

I agree it's a preference. It's no more racist for a guy to not want to date a girl who dates outside her race than it is for a guy to want a girl who does. If I knew a girl dated outside of my type whether that'd be skater dudes or had a lot of gay friends or what have you, I would see it as sign that I'm not really her type. Not being for inter-racial relationships doesn't make one racist.

 

[FairShake]

Not being for inter-racial relationships doesn't make one racist.

I'm pretty sure this thread will be closed but...yeah, not being for interracial relationships IS racist. It is probably the most racist thing out there. It has led to death and broken families and all sorts of horrible things.

If YOU don't want to date outside of your race because of physical or cultural preference then it's possible you're not a racist. If you have problems with OTHER people dating outside their race then you definitely ARE a racist.

 

[ketostix]

I'm pretty sure this thread will be closed but...yeah, not being for interracial relationships IS racist. It is probably the most racist thing out there. It has led to death and broken families and all sorts of horrible things.

If YOU don't want to date outside of your race because of physical or cultural preference then it's possible you're not a racist. If you have problems with OTHER people dating outside their race then you definitely ARE a racist.

That's ridiculous. I guess according to you it's "racist" for someone to date only within their race, but it's not racist for a someone to only date from a certain race. Both are racial preferences, but that doesn't automatically make either "racist". Call me a racist I don't care. I don't allow shaming words and labels to control my beliefs and actions. I have my reasons for what I prefer.

 

[KontrollerX]

"not being for interracial relationships IS racist"

I think it only becomes racist if you are actively trying to work at getting laws put into place that would criminalize the practice.

Aside from that if you're just a guy on the street of whatever color voicing your opinion and preference that interracial dating is not something you personally approve of for yourself since it gives you a bad feeling inside that you can't control then thats just fine and dandy and again is just your own preference of how you prefer to live your life.

As long as you're not trying to force people to live that same way as you I think a person who lives like this is clear of any racism charge.

As a former hardcore liberal turned libertarian I've come to believe the doctrine of multiculturalism itself is an incredibly clever racist idealogy that promotes interracial coupling as a means of peacefully destroying unique cultures and races of people without a single bullet being fired or single declaration of war going out but thats likely a discussion for another forum.

 

[KontrollerX]

Well Crimson a black friend of mine once told me he didn't like black women who dated white guys not because he thought white guys were beneath him but rather he thought it was like the black women saying that their race wasn't good enough to date.

He took it as an insult from black women to date white guys completely and no fellow blacks so his focus wasn't on an anti white mindset so much as it was thinking he and his fellow blacks were being insulted by black women that preferred dating whites.

His focus was on that real or imagined slight not on having an anti white racism.

 

[kody_starr]

troll.

would u contunue dating a girl-this is 2nd date and she tells u that her ex bf was black guy. for myself i find that kind of weird and little disgusting. i don't think i would marry her or date her. i don't really believe in that kind of stuff. i mean i wouldn't date a black girl.
how about you what if she told u her ex was a black guy or most of her ex's are blacks-would u contiunue dating her
i still stay friends with her so i can meet other girls-hook ups, dating wise nooo
if they are all her ex's are black guy would u be ok with it., or she said one of her ex was a black guy

 

[f283000]

I would lose respect for the girl and yes I probably wouldn't date her.

I have gone out with girls of all races. Can I have this double standard? absolutely. If something doesn't attract you about a girl then go for another one. This is not racist.

 

[seek&destroy]

thats funny...im from toronto and my best buddy was in the exact same situation. this girl he was seeing was fooling around with many black guys right before they started going out. he ended things with her within a week after she told him that. in my opinion he did the right thing, especially if it didn't feel right for him.

 

[Phenomenal One]

He took it as an insult from black women to date white guys completely and no fellow blacks so his focus wasn't on an anti white mindset so much as it was thinking he and his fellow blacks were being insulted by black women that preferred dating whites.

the only problem with that is the people that exclusively date outside their race get pissed off when someone else does the same.

the most negative talked about form of dating outside the race is black men dating white woman.
the funny thing is the negativity mostly comes from black woman.

typical comment about blk men/wht woman dating : "there aint enough good black men to go around"

i don't find it rasict but dumb as hell to disqualifying a woman from being datable just because of the race of men she's dated in the past.